Don't disable it. A quick google about this subject will explain why it's important to keep this on. Windows knows what it's doing with your SSD, let it carry on.
Yes, SSDs don't work in the same way as magnetic spinning disks of yesteryear, however files do get stored as fragments, and there is an overhead associated with this which is the metadata that points to all the fragments. This can only get so big, and when it does you're in trouble.
TL;DR, just let windows do its thing. It isn't killing your drive. "Optimize Drives" isn't just defrag.exe, it's a more overarching disk health application.