Women that expect us to pay.

OpenToSuggestions · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:21

Theophany said:
Who cares as long as you're getting laid?

May as well pay for a prostitute then. At least she is guaranteed to swallow.

Cupra · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:24

OpenToSuggestions said:
May as well pay for a prostitute then. At least she is guaranteed to swallow.

i dont know what filth your paying for but id get checked for std's and sti's

Shikkaka · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:25

Tarqy said:
Was she really so bad in the sack that you're complaining about £30.

Sigh! It's not the money, it's the principle.... Would you not be slightly peefed that you have bought all drinks and food and not received a single thanks? Unless her way of saying thanks is opening her legs, in which case she's not my kind of girl anyways.

Theophany · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:25

OpenToSuggestions said:
May as well pay for a prostitute then. At least she is guaranteed to swallow.

Well sure, if you're into that kind of thing.

Jonnybmac · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:28

I hate it when your stood at a relativly empty bar, like last night and lairy women tend to push infront and get served dirst for their looks.. Not worth arguing and making a scene over but it annoys me their attitude to think its their right to push in and not have mannors.

I generally always buy first to make an impression but dont try to makeout im skint either.

Next time you go out maybe when she decides what she wants, offer a cheaper alternate you could buy her as your not flush enough to afford what she wants lol

Tarqy · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:28

Steameh said:
Sigh! It's not the money, it's the principle.... Would you not be slightly peefed that you have bought all drinks and food and not received a single thanks? Unless her way of saying thanks is opening her legs, in which case she's not my kind of girl anyways.

Well unless you've missed part of the story this was your 1st time going out together if you don't count the xmas party and she was dtf so surely that tells you everthing you need to know...

Tute · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:30

Going 50/50 doesn't work either. I know a married couple who split everything 50/50, having to stand there at a restaurant watching them squabble over who pays what is just plain embarassing. Then there's the whole "well I paid £x extra last time" etc. etc.

Shikkaka · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:31

Tarqy said:
Well unless you've missed part of the story this was your 1st time going out together if you don't count the xmas party and she was dtf so surely that tells you everthing you need to know...

Ha, this is true! Well, I never really saw her as a potential anyways, mainly because relationship and work don't go from experience.

TNGL · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:34

arknor · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:40

Tarqy said:
Was she really so bad in the sack that you're complaining about £30.

another one of those women who think everything should be provided for them..

maybe 40-50 years ago i would have been happy to keep a woman supplied with cleaning products , a working hoover , cupboards full of ingredients to make meals and clothes to wear.

but these days women expect far to much to be provided rather than a job a lot of them will look for a man.

im all for equal rights and doing my share of the housework but only if the other involved party is prepared to do the same.

Lukewhitworth · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:40

I would offer to pay the 1st date, but its half and half from then on! I think actually on the first date i went on with my fiancee she paid for the popcorn

physichull · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:45

Lukewhitworth said:
I would offer to pay the 1st date, but its half and half from then on! I think actually on the first date i went on with my fiancee she paid for the popcorn

Exactly. Its what me and my girlfriend did. I paid for the first date, and went halves after that.

Psycho Sonny · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:51

Steameh said:
Story 2. Lucky me, I went out Friday night and got talking to someone else. We've been texting a couple of times since and I asked if she wants to meet up sometime. She says yes, I ask what would she like to do.... 'Whatever you can afford to pay for'. WTF!

sounds like you missed out on a really good time, i would have text back, a bottle of bacardi, a *****, some rope and a shovel.

Jay794 · 4 Mar 2012 at 14:53

I would always split the bill, why the hell should you pay for them to get drunk, especially when it doesn't end in sex

Psycho Sonny · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:09

Jay794 said:
I would always split the bill, why the hell should you pay for them to get drunk, especially when it doesn't end in sex

it did end in sex

Randomface74 · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:11

"I'll pay what I think you're worth. Bye"

Muban · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:13

Women still do this? I appears I am missing a trick!

When dating I would expect to go dutch, right from the first date. From what the OP has told us he had a lucky escape in the end from this 'classy lady'.

Jay794 · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:16

A classy lady would probably offer to split the bill or at least pay for her drinks

vicisthebest · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:31

Me and my other half usually pay half and half, always have really, right from the first date. Sometimes if he wants to treat me and pay for it then he will do, similarly if I want to pay then I will (his birthday, or when I got my first pay from my new job, got a tax refund, got a bonus, etc).

I think it's nice to be treated sometimes

but I certainly wouldn't expect it.

Stellios · 4 Mar 2012 at 15:32

The woman worth keeping is the woman that isnt arrogant enough to expect you to pay for everything. Dont get me wrong Im a believer of 'the bloke pays' but only maybe the first few times, if she hasnt offered to chip in after a few trips out then run or youll end up doing it for her your whole life.