Ok, long story short i have 5 kids, 4 from my previous marriage and a new baby with my new partner.
I was working 40 hours a week and at the end of august i submitted a letter to my employer stating that i wish to apply for a flexible working pattern. The reason for this is twfold - 1, i can spend more time brining up new baby and helping my partner and 2. I can have my other children overnight for 3 nights instead of just one. I used a template i found online and put in all the points required. I gave 32 days notice of when i wanted to start this new pattern.
I waited a few days until i asked my manager if hed read the letter. He said yes and assured me all would be ok and my request was approved. I left it a few more days and asked again and he said it was all sorted and id start my new shifts on my requested date, 1st october. Sure enough the new rotas appeared and i was working less hours as requested.
Fast forward to the start of november and we get a new manager ( 4th one in 3 years
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She informs me that the previous manager didnt follow procedure with regards to my application and said id have to work extra hours as requested. I agreed to work an few shifts a month provided i had adequate notice. She went on to say that if i didnt do extra to cover others then id not be able to have any annual leave. Now i kinow this is illegal as im entitled by law to 5.6 weeks.
Since then another member of staff has left due to issues with the manager she was having. So her shifts need covering. I put my name down for 1 extra shift a week to cover leaving them with another shift to cover.
So yesterday i get a call asking me to work 15-23 as someone had phoned in sick. I said i couldnt as i had family over from london and we were going out for a meal.
This afternoon at 13.15 i recieve a call asking me to work 15-23. Again i have to decline because i have my kids. These plans were made weeks ago when the rotas went up.
I get the feeling im in for a rollocking tomorrow because they rang me 2 days in a row and i didnt go in. But im already doing extra this week ( tomorrow ).
I expect ill be called into the office at the end of my shift at 3, but ill have to tell them i cant stay as i have to be up school for 3.15 to pick kids up.
I can see me having a sleepless night with worry.
I was working 40 hours a week and at the end of august i submitted a letter to my employer stating that i wish to apply for a flexible working pattern. The reason for this is twfold - 1, i can spend more time brining up new baby and helping my partner and 2. I can have my other children overnight for 3 nights instead of just one. I used a template i found online and put in all the points required. I gave 32 days notice of when i wanted to start this new pattern.
I waited a few days until i asked my manager if hed read the letter. He said yes and assured me all would be ok and my request was approved. I left it a few more days and asked again and he said it was all sorted and id start my new shifts on my requested date, 1st october. Sure enough the new rotas appeared and i was working less hours as requested.
Fast forward to the start of november and we get a new manager ( 4th one in 3 years

She informs me that the previous manager didnt follow procedure with regards to my application and said id have to work extra hours as requested. I agreed to work an few shifts a month provided i had adequate notice. She went on to say that if i didnt do extra to cover others then id not be able to have any annual leave. Now i kinow this is illegal as im entitled by law to 5.6 weeks.
Since then another member of staff has left due to issues with the manager she was having. So her shifts need covering. I put my name down for 1 extra shift a week to cover leaving them with another shift to cover.
So yesterday i get a call asking me to work 15-23 as someone had phoned in sick. I said i couldnt as i had family over from london and we were going out for a meal.
This afternoon at 13.15 i recieve a call asking me to work 15-23. Again i have to decline because i have my kids. These plans were made weeks ago when the rotas went up.
I get the feeling im in for a rollocking tomorrow because they rang me 2 days in a row and i didnt go in. But im already doing extra this week ( tomorrow ).
I expect ill be called into the office at the end of my shift at 3, but ill have to tell them i cant stay as i have to be up school for 3.15 to pick kids up.
I can see me having a sleepless night with worry.