Would it bother you if...

It would probably bother me a fair bit. Especially if it was meant to symbolise their engagement.

If it was just a present or whatever then fine.

I dunno if it's the tight ass in me, but I'm more wondering why after they split he didn't take the ring back? As he kinda bought it for a purpose and I'm guessing spent a reasonable amount on it. I'd expect someone to give it back if it all ended!
 
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If she looks like this then let her keep the ring, but kick her the hell out! More trouble than she's worth.
 
Mr_White said:
So you're not allowed to place sentimental value on something you've been given by someone you loved, and is not unreasonable to assume are probably still fond of them if it ended amicably.

Do you propose that everything and anything to do with them is destroyed and dejected as soon as the relationship is over, any keepsakes aren't allowed, otherwise she can't be trusted and wants to get back with them?

Rather irrational, isn't it?
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Love isn't rational.

And I don't know why you would want to carry over a keepsake of a failed relationship.
 
Couple of options here:

1. Hide the ring

2. Lose the ring

3. Stick the ring up your ring (she'll never look at it the same way again (her ring, not your ring)).

Have you told her how the ring actually makes you feel? I would say:

"That ring was given to you by your ex. See it from my point of view, would you like it if i wore a piece of jewellery given to me by an ex?"

If the ring is nothing more than a pretty decoration to her, then she should remove it out of respect to you and your relationship. If she keeps it on i'd be nailing her sister behind her back.
 
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