Y.A.R.T. (Yet Another Relationship Thread)..

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OP in updating thread shocker!?

Sounds fairly amicable and it sounds like for now, you are better off single to focus on life and what you want.

Good luck and well played.
 
Devrij said:
Hit the nail on the head here. If you learn nothing else from this, remember women don't want a housewife, they want a man. And they will fight you constantly for control, and if you don't continue to assert yourself they will lose respect for you.
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Lol, you and the formerly quoted poster are fools. I think you'd do a lot better in pre-Sufferage Victorian Britain with such a brainfart attitude, but I'm sure most of the woman-beating druggie dole monkeys that Jeremy Kyle drags onto his stage would agree with your views.
 
Deadbeat said:
Lol, you and the formerly quoted poster are fools. I think you'd do a lot better in pre-Sufferage Victorian Britain with such a brainfart attitude, but I'm sure most of the woman-beating druggie dole monkeys that Jeremy Kyle drags onto his stage would agree with your views.
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You're taking my post the wrong way. I don't mean you have to make her cry or treat her like crap. I mean you have to say no sometimes when they push it to far, you have to stand up for yourself. If you don't, she will lose attraction for you as she slowly becomes the leader of the relationship and you become her bitch. Hence the "yes dear" relationships you see after a man has slowly been worn away after years of her pushing him and him eventually giving in. If you have a naturally strong personality it is easy. Some guys, like the OP, are too nice (not a bad thing), but it's the reason you see so many girls go for "bad boys" and end up all sad, but aren't attracted to the "nice guys" because there's no "chemistry".

Trust me, if you adopt that boring masculine stereotype you will get results. As messed up as it is, it works.
 
Devrij said:
You're taking my post the wrong way. I don't mean you have to make her cry or treat her like crap. I mean you have to say no sometimes when they push it to far, you have to stand up for yourself. If you don't, she will lose attraction for you as she slowly becomes the leader of the relationship and you become her bitch. Hence the "yes dear" relationships you see after a man has slowly been worn away after years of her pushing him and him eventually giving in. If you have a naturally strong personality it is easy. Some guys, like the OP, are too nice (not a bad thing), but it's the reason you see so many girls go for "bad boys" and end up all sad, but aren't attracted to the "nice guys" because there's no "chemistry".

Trust me, if you adopt that boring masculine stereotype you will get results. As messed up as it is, it works.
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Maybe, but to be honest I'd abandon that sort of relationship in a heartbeat. Sure, it could work in a results sense - you may well end up having more stable, longer and more frequent relationships than I, but I'd bet my bottom dollar that I'd end up happier and more satisfied.

Then again, I've never had an interest in the kind of girl who goes for "bad boys". If she doesn't have the self-consideration to know what she actually wants or the restraint to not dive into every relationship opportunity that presents itself in the hope of stumbling across the perfect guy, I have no time for her.
 
If she doesn't have the self-consideration to know what she actually wants
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No woman knows what they want. They complain about men being cheats and liars but if you are all bat**** crazy can you blame us? :D

you are well out of that relationship OP imo. dont think i believe in monogamy anymore either....i think we are brainwashed with this love and marriage crap and the white picket fence loving wife. Imho you should just see whoever you like but obviously be open about it to those you are seeing. ie dont hide secrets, cheat etc. works for my mate - he always has a woman he is going to see or he is just back from..keeps a bunch of them as friends (some with benefits)

I think monogamy/marriage is just a hangup from victorian values. Free love is the way to go as long as everybody is honest.

If you rely on someone else to make you happy then ultimately you are gonna be unhappy for a long long time....
 
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