Yes i knew it................

Scythe said:
My dad saw that on the news and told me about his invention; The Noshagraph.
It's a line graph that proves that the amount of noshes per month will decrease in relation to the amount of time you have been seeing a woman. However, there will be peaks, when the woman sees a new house, car, sofa for example.
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thats the truth and it hurts. the use of sex can indeed become very political in a relationship. in general it tends to be, as above, when the woman is trying to coerce the male into something they will tend to give a bit more.

otherwise the decline will continue! i am not stating this is the same for EVERY girl. merely the majority of them!
 
cleanbluesky said:
Yeah, I'd agree with that but it doesn't prove the hypothesis of the OP...

In general the sexual/coupling behaviours of men and women have been seen to adapt... if there significantly are more men than women, then women will have two husbands and vice versa if there are more men...

I don't think there are any set rules for either sex being promiscuous, although I would say that a lot of evolutionary 'scientists' would like to say there are, reinforcing the macho image that they never quite got to experience because of all the study

Have you got a link to the original study so that I can rip it apart bit by bit if I have the time?
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I still disagree with you, his hypothesis IMV is right to some extent if not completely. I am saying that on the basis of what i have experienced. Posters agreeing with the research will in my opinion be buttressing the hypothesis.

You might think there is isnt any set rules but it would appear that his research disagree with that. If we are programmed to have sexual drive all the time (according to the research) than women then i can safely argue that we are "potentially promiscous" if not all the way. This would make sense in terms of survival of the human race. The high sex drive will ensure diversity, competition and ultimately a better gene pool.
Look at the panda animal for example, low sex drive equals decline in population.

Here is the link for the news in bbc, I dont know why it got removed http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4790313.stm

And here is something that looks like his home page http://www.mve-liste.de/mitglieder.php?ID=38

If you want more, just google his name.
 
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DING DING DING......What do we have for him Johnny :D

Don't know about the exact figures but I would have to say that there is a lot of truth in what El posted :p
 
$loth said:
You're complaining :eek:
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Yeah, it all seemed fine at the start, but i'm talking a big sex drive. 3 times a day everyday.

As I said it gets tiresome after 4 years.
 
me227 said:
Yeah, it all seemed fine at the start, but i'm talking a big sex drive. 3 times a day everyday.

As I said it gets tiresome after 4 years.
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Will you be interested in Wife swap? :D
 
crystaline said:
The world would be better with more communication. Too many people complain their other half doesn't do this or that.. but they don't even ask for what it is they want.
They expect it, and when they don't get it, they wonder why - can't mind read!


I'm starting to think I'm too nice to mine reading what some of you put up with!! I don't take him shopping unless he wants to, and even then we tend to just split up and look where we want and meet up for dinner again.
I ENCOURAGE him to go out with friends. I don't think he does it enough and I like the other person to be independent as it gets boring when all you do is talk to each other all the time.
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spot on post. You sound like me. my OH is off to the NEC bike show, or out for poker nights with his friends, and I'm out doing my thing or enjoying a bit of 'me' time. I don't think I've ever wanted him to come shopping with me - I don't mind him coming along but I'd never make him if he didn't want to. We spend our weekend's watching the footy and having rumpy-pumpy (three years together btw) :D

Nickg said:
hey i aint pulling any punches here. this is the truth as i have seen it over the last 2 years,

maybe oldham/rochdale is different to the real world:)
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You're old enough to type and you've not figured this out already?? :p
 
Thanks for your nice words. There is a lot more to it than just the amount of times she wanted it a day.

But hey if you all find 3 times a day everyday while living and working with her fine then there obviously just must be something wrong with me.
 
It looks like El Razur has been getting a few knock backs recently and was going to change his sig :)

Its normal. When you first go out its twice (or more) a day. As soon as the engagement ring goes on it may increase. You get married and a few months later it starts to go slightly haywire. Married a few years and you're lucky to get any.
 
Cant say i can see it happening with my current gf/missus as shes a horny little devil in and out of the bedroom:p. Mind you i dont see much of her as she lives in NYC but when i do then yes we make up for it in more ways than one;).

As for the shopping bits and other things, i like taking my missus out shopping or should i say she drags me out shopping. But with her its always a fun outing and never a bore, whereas with previous ex's i found it a chore and quite mind numbing in some respects. But i guess with the distance we have, we have no choice but to do our own thing but even if we were together 24-7. I wouldnt stop her from having her own life and wouldnt want her to stop me from having a life of my own. Cant stand clingy/needy women tbh, nothing scares me more than having a lass who wants to know where i am every single min of the day lol.
 
me227 said:
Thanks for your nice words. There is a lot more to it than just the amount of times she wanted it a day.

But hey if you all find 3 times a day everyday while living and working with her fine then there obviously just must be something wrong with me.
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I was kidding man. No harm intended.

I know a lot of guys will wish they have your kind of woman - me included. :D , i dont think there's anything wrong with you, im guessing you mean it is becoming boring? how about you spice things up - use your imagination.
Having said that, if you insist or think something is wrong with you, you might wanna consider cbs.
 
me227 said:
Yeah, it all seemed fine at the start, but i'm talking a big sex drive. 3 times a day everyday.

As I said it gets tiresome after 4 years.
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I agree mate, after 15 years the wife is still up for it daily, everyday, except 'those' days. Hell, once a month would be enough for me, and thats probably more game time than im prepared to lose EVERY month :o
It's not always because sex gets boring, its because it becomes an expected routine. If you KNOW you are going to get it every day it soon loses its appeal :mad:
 
ElRazur said:
I was kidding man. No harm intended.

I know a lot of guys will wish they have your kind of woman - me included. :D , i dont think there's anything wrong with you, im guessing you mean it is becoming boring? how about you spice things up - use your imagination.
Having said that, if you insist or think something is wrong with you, you might wanna consider cbs.
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Yes it was becoming boring. I would have had no problems with the amount if it was kept exciting. But not sure how much detail to go into but there was NO foreplay at all. It was basically "You want to have sex?" and then that was it.

Now it's fine for a while but after a while it just starts to become really boring and unexciting. As there is no chase for it or anything. Things were pretty spiced up in bed but in terms of just before sex there was nothing so it was hard to get into the mood.

I know myself well enough not to consider CBS as I know why I found it tiresome and it wasn't due to lack of attraction or desire towards the opposite sex.

its because it becomes an expected routine. If you KNOW you are going to get it every day it soon loses its appeal
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Yes just read this after I posted the above. She wasn't even willing to stop during those "days of the month" either. But I didn't do it then at all. But it loses it's appeal if you know your getting it and there is no chase or even at least foreplay before hand.
 
crystaline said:
OK

WELL

firstly girls with boob jobs are going to be psychos. They are so insecure they have to go through surgery to even feel better about themselves.

They're left with popeye boobs which point up to the ceiling when they lie down.
Most guys I've met would prefer, small, proportioned and natural as opposed to large, solid and fake.

Bleugh I work in an industry where half the people have had some form of surgery and all of them are mentally messed up.
If they stopped thinking about their body for two seconds they may actually develop a personality!

[/soapbox]
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Hehe agreed, i went out with a lass who was bloody stunning, nice set of norks..fake of course but very well done and an absolute nympho in the bed but my god was she an utter nutcase.
Only saw her the once because after we had sex, albeit a very good session...she got all emotional over nothing really. Started to cry and shout...im like WTF!!! relax lol. But she wouldnt, think it was the alcohol that did it really but then she started coming out with rubbish like my boobs are too small. This is a girl who was 5'3 in height, size 8 with 34D norks lol. No matter how much i told her that she looks gorgeous because she did in my eyes, it didnt make a difference.
In the end i had to kick her out of my house at 5am because she started to get a bit violent as well.
Got a few texts after that night apologising and wanting to make it up to me etc but i knocked it on the head and told her that its best we no longer see each other as shes a lunatic....yes i did tell her as i dont hold anything back when it comes to being truthful....after that i never heard from her again...so i guess she took the hint quite literally.

Nice girl and nice looking but had some serious issues abotu herself, and to me it was due to her boob job...instead of making her more confident it made her more paranoid about what others thought.
 
SLightly off topic but relevant ;)

To make a woman happy..... a man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments regularly
45. love shopping
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
51. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she is

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
53. Never to forget: * birthdays * anniversaries * arrangements she makes

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:
1. Leave him alone!.
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me227 said:
Yes it was becoming boring. I would have had no problems with the amount if it was kept exciting. But not sure how much detail to go into but there was NO foreplay at all. It was basically "You want to have sex?" and then that was it.
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Oh my God! that is my kind of woman. Do you realise you are holding a gem in your hand? Perhaps im so backward with my view - why hunt, when the prey can easily come to you?
All you need to do is switch off that part of your brain that keeps telling you to "hunt".

Now it's fine for a while but after a while it just starts to become really boring and unexciting. As there is no chase for it or anything. Things were pretty spiced up in bed but in terms of just before sex there was nothing so it was hard to get into the mood.
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Seriously, i see what you are saying but im a guy and giving advise to another guy in this area.....feels awkward. All i can say his try something new - and im not talking about you asking her for threesome. :eek: Perhaps you play hard to get if she wont. You know make her gag for it before you dive in.

I know myself well enough not to consider CBS as I know why I found it tiresome and it wasn't due to lack of attraction or desire towards the opposite sex.
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No, lol i meant his advice of becoming a homo.
 
ElRazur said:
Oh my God! that is my kind of woman. Do you realise you are holding a gem in your hand? Perhaps im so backward with my view - why hunt, when the prey can easily come to you?
All you need to do is switch off that part of your brain that keeps telling you to "hunt".



Seriously, i see what you are saying but im a guy and giving advise to another guy in this area.....feels awkward. All i can say his try something new - and im not talking about you asking her for threesome. :eek: Perhaps you play hard to get if she wont. You know make her gag for it before you dive in.
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give the guy a break, he is just bored and wants a change...

if I were her, I would quit for 2 weeks and he'd be so shocked out of the routine it may spark things up again :D
 
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