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Your Feminine Side
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Why thank you, that reminds me, have some pictures of a chocolate fondant to put on it
We have a bizarre foreign student (Brazil) in my Uni Course. She sometimes wears japanese bandanas, writes in english on one hand, japanese kanji with the other (at the same time.. showoff).
However, if that wasnt weird enough, she wears baggy clothes to hide the shape of her breasts, wears trainers and cuts her hair short. We call her Rambo, but everytime we've heard her introduce herself/himself, she/he gives a different name, sometimes a girls name, or a boy's name.
We were doing Research methods class - making a survey, apparently she took offence that their group's survey only had Male/Female in the Gender option. She wanted a scale of 1-10 or something, and shouted at the tutor.
... cool story bro!
However, if that wasnt weird enough, she wears baggy clothes to hide the shape of her breasts, wears trainers and cuts her hair short. We call her Rambo, but everytime we've heard her introduce herself/himself, she/he gives a different name, sometimes a girls name, or a boy's name.
We were doing Research methods class - making a survey, apparently she took offence that their group's survey only had Male/Female in the Gender option. She wanted a scale of 1-10 or something, and shouted at the tutor.
... cool story bro!
A scale? Well that's a different way of doing it I suppose.
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Its Paintball
My teammates have said it looks awesome and I quote Pink is the new Black in paintball
Different sure lol,
I'm pretty sure he/she has lady parts, he/she just feels more masculine at heart. And is rather passionate about it! Although she/he talks without moving his/her teeth and I can't understand a thing anyway..
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I never said cats were stupid. I said dogs were stupid and they are. God bless.
If you can't wrestle it, it isn't a dog. Little dogs are the same as cats.
I'm sure some zoologist will claim that a small dog is a dog and he'll have scientific evidence and proofs and other shhh . . .stuff.
However if seen through the eyes of a man, a cat will be perceived as feminine.
Big cats . . yeah. They are manly I guess, they rip apart animals but this discussion is about household pets.
I've understand that sexuality can be a spectrum, but gender is something else.
Gender has a spectrum too. I've seem some pretty effeminate men (mostly azn) and some masculine women (my school german teacher).
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This is why condoms were invented. I aint that desperate to see Alice in wonderland that I'd let Johnny Depp custard inside me or vice versa, I dunno whether I'd be up for cuddling after either.
But I reckon it'd also be a major pulling tool, girls love Johnny Depp.
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A scale is a right way to measure gender. Gender is not sex, despite the fact that it's very common to mistakenly think it is. Gender is about degrees of masculinity and femininity, so clearly it doesn't fall into discrete groups.
Essentially, she knows what 'gender' actually means.
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How do you measure gender then, does it just boil down to dominance/submission and if you like football and cars?
Maybe how hairy your back is? Mines like a freaking jungle, I'm getting it waxed soon because I think it's probably a serious turn off for my missus.
I found a hair on my nose the other day, I've a feeling I may have some kind of serious hormonal imbalance with the rate my body hair grows, since I was 13
How do you measure gender then, does it just boil down to dominance/submission and if you like football and cars?
It boils down to whatever is considered masculine and feminine to whatever degree wherever and whenever you live.
So, for example, pink in England was strongly masculine a hundred years or so ago, became very strongly feminine for a while and is becoming much less feminine now.
It's all made up, really.
EDIT: I was over-stating my point. Secondary sexual characteristics, such as body hair, have a real basis and are also gendered. But most of it is made up.
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Ugh!
Hell yeah!
Saying that though, I'm passionate and in touch with my emotional side, but that's about as far as it goes. I like being alpha.
I'd say your gay or bi and still in the process of acknowledging it. Nothing wrong with that mind you, but don't assume these feminine orientations are normal because for 90% of men they aren't.
To be honest having a Friday temper tantrum when you get wrecked is more of a female trait than a male one. It's very rare me and my freinds have arguments when we go out but girls I know do it all the time then they kiss and make up later.
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ROFL
Strange OP. Were you exploring your girlfriends underwear draw at the time?
I'm an in-betweener. Not all alfa male but not beta either. I think tht's living with the same woman for 18 years. I tend to notice things and women have noticed i notice, if you know what I mean but I tend to stay away from my wife's underwear draw.. That's crossing the line! Although my son thought it would by funny a few years back to start a rumour that I did!
Its socialisation ... They learn what it is to be male or female from others