I think you're placing way to much importance on a title and a picture. It's not implying any sort of recognition or status other than post count, so why pretend it is and feel all hurt that you can't 'move up the ranks' as quick as you want? If you're genuinely helpful you'll build up a reputation for yourself anyway - not sure why you feel you need special recognition for that. If you dont want to help people for 'free' you dont have to. Forum's I've been on with reputation or thanks systems just seem to encourage sad popularity contests, 'us and them' attitudes with groups of 'elites' who think they own the place, etc, etc.
But then I'm an old git

Dont even see the point of the post count - I dont count the number of sentences I speak down the pub. And dont get me started on collecting 'friends' and 'liking' things - aaarrghghhh!