Well, that's hurfdurf's entire view of himself - it's your fault. What is? Everything is. Because he's male. Yes, he's a tiresome bore and he's a bigot devoted to promoting sexism. But he's also a victim and badly damaged. I hope that one day he gets better.
Maybe I have some sympathy because I used to be somewhat like him. I was a feminist, until I found some self-respect and got better. Maybe that's also why I have a large degree of hostility towards him.