Bit of an update. Went to a Meet Up in a pub on Friday.
Proud of myself for doing it. It was a little odd, kind of like online dating, but not bad!
The one I went two was pretty.. Dull
One or two who were ok the rest, social rejects themselves who don't really talk
I am very good at talking once I get out and feel comfortable (ie not a date or pulling)
And often it only seems to be me and another one or two who did
These are the people who don't go much
So I started looking at whether one of these were going. Others obviously did the same.
Soon became apparent that same (dull) members were the regulars
These regular only meets soon became so tedious I'd rather be at home doing nought.
It bordered on awkward
Hope yours has a better range of people with more going per meet. That is the key.
And this was all before I was single
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