Are you referring to the Amazon thing when you say spyware? That hasn't been an issue in a long time, it's no longer enabled by default, been that way for a while, don't get me wrong, I'm not defending Ubuntu, I stopped using it the moment they decided to push Snap on us, from that moment, I told myself I'll never use Ubuntu again (or any distros based on it), unless you're talking about something else and I've somehow missed it.
Fedora is pretty good these days, I made it my default choice of distro couple of years ago, the experience has been pretty good, though as of few days ago, I gotta say it's a bit hard to recommend if you're using AMD GPU due to the VAAPI issue but solutions are in works from what I've seen.
Arch isn't so bad, pretty easy to install since archinstall got added, I can't speak about the community since I don't really get too involved with Linux communities, but their wiki is pretty amazing and covers so many things.