Feel like my whole world has just been crushed :(

knip said:
If you only saw her twice a week, what was she doing on the other nights you didnt see her? As in did that not make you a teeny bit suspicious?
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not really, she works all day and is pretty tired when she gets home, she would still talk to me them evenings, i cant go round assuming she is up to something bad all the time though can i?, nor did i want her around me 24/7, as i said before though, i am questioning things she has said to me, but i have no idea about the full extent of her relationship with the guy.

i really need to get myself a new username, im really not a chav lol, it sounded like a good username 5 years ago.
 
MaX_PoWah said:
not really, she works all day and is pretty tired when she gets home, she would still talk to me them evenings, i cant go round assuming she is up to something bad all the time though can i?, nor did i want her around me 24/7, as i said before though, i am questioning things she has said to me, but i have no idea about the full extent of her relationship with the guy.

i really need to get myself a new username, im really not a chav lol, it sounded like a good username 5 years ago.
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No I know I guess I was kind of speaking from experience because a mate of mine had two men on the go for a while, she'd see one twice a week, the other twice a week and the other nights to herself. One of the men knew about the other one though, so she was able to ring the bloke who didnt know on the nights she didnt see him and the other one was ok with it.

Im not saying you're in the same situation. Maybe she didnt quite have the guts to leave the other bloke so was just testing things out with you like I said earlier.

Still not a nice situation to be in, but at least you know now and can move on :)
 
lol its not a matter of ditching it really, there is nothing left is there, without trust there is nothing, i just feel rubbish because we have had such a good week and also because its going to be in front of me at work next weekend, i dont even know if the other guy knows about me and her, so he mite even be mad which considering he is massive isnt good news.
 
MaX_PoWah said:
lol its not a matter of ditching it really, there is nothing left is there, without trust there is nothing, i just feel rubbish because we have had such a good week and also because its going to be in front of me at work next weekend, i dont even know if the other guy knows about me and her, so he mite even be mad which considering he is massive isnt good news.
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what are you talking about? ignore him, look after yourself, have nothing more to do with her. Simple as that.
 
Sorry to hear that. That is real f'ed up stuff. Try forget her, keep your self busy, and go find a nice girl that you know will keep you happy. You'll get over it in time, just try stay happy. End of day, it's her loss, no?
 
Forget her, she's not worth it.

But a one legged pirate into surprise spiderman, would make you feel a LOT better! ;)

Spiderman..hooyah..its over! /getcoat :D
 
MaX_PoWah said:
lol its not a matter of ditching it really, there is nothing left is there, without trust there is nothing, i just feel rubbish because we have had such a good week and also because its going to be in front of me at work next weekend, i dont even know if the other guy knows about me and her, so he mite even be mad which considering he is massive isnt good news.
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If there's any justice in the world, the other guy will feel as peed off with her and realise, like you, she's not worth it, then you can both go out for a drink, get hammered and discuss her intimate details :)
 
knip said:
Id have to say in both cases the blokes have posted, that theyve either been a very early relationship, or as you said yourself an on/off one, so you probably havent got to the "lets just see eachother and not other people" conversation. I went out with a bloke on one date, decided it wasnt meant to be, but then after one date he gets all devastated and gives me this big sad puppy dog act, which really put me off.

The girls sound like they still have things going on with their ex's and so therefore were just kind of testing the water with you (which yes kinda stinks because it means you both got hurt) but you werent exactly going out for months or married for years or anything.

Maybe next time if you dont want the same thing to happen, you just kind of keep your guard up a bit, and have the "are you seeing anyone else" conversation sooner.
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Morba said:
both cases seem like all that had happened was the first kiss, then the women went elsewhere.
seriously, get a grip of yourselves, if you are like this after nothing in a relationship then you will be having nervous breakdowns when a real relationship hits the rocks!
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hmm... if you mean the 2relationship posts which 1 was mine... I'm cool with it...again like I said, life goes on
she did confirm she wanted to be with me, but didn't expect much cause it was early days.
was just sharing my story that's all :P

MaX_PoWah said:
lol its not a matter of ditching it really, there is nothing left is there, without trust there is nothing, i just feel rubbish because we have had such a good week and also because its going to be in front of me at work next weekend, i dont even know if the other guy knows about me and her, so he mite even be mad which considering he is massive isnt good news.
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in front of you at work next weekend?
dude.... don't worry about the other guy man, just chill out with some friends.
It takes time to get to really know someone, also just time to heal. At the mo, just do something for yourself :)
 
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I knew it was about a girl as soon as I read the thread title :(

Everyone gets this moment, the best thing to do is try to move on.. however hard that may be.

I'm sorry for the heartbreak dude.
 
Gutted dude, i know how you feel and it isn't nice. The one good thing here is you realize she isn't for you, and you're going to move on. That's the hardest bit. Your obviously bothered by it, but try not to show it. You'll have umpteen more woman yet, just pretend like nothing happened and you are over it. If she speaks to you, just say "I have nothing to say to you now, or ever. Good luck with the other guy" then calmly walk away and serve the next piece of meat pointing their nipples out to get served first.

As others have said, it's better you found this out now, and not months down the line where things could be more serious. It's hard to spot a cheating skank but i believe it is obvious when you get them in bed. Also, penski tells me they have a certain smell, probably due to lots of web face.

Chin up fella, you're going places, good places.
 
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