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What I did was get a girlfriend who's half deaf in one ear - you then simply have to coax her to sleep on the correct side.
gah! girlfriend problems..yes yes i know
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What I did was get a girlfriend who's half deaf in one ear - you then simply have to coax her to sleep on the correct side.
well iv been with my girlfriend for about a year, we broke up for 3 month and she went with someone else after we split then she realised how much she missed and loved me (she says) and how well i treated her compaired to other blokes,
anyway we got back together 8-9 weeks ago all was great went on holiday together 5 weeks ago but since we got back we havent had any kind of sexual activity on her behalf, no idea whats wrong with her and its making me realy nervous and insecure (making me feel like theirs someone else, or something wrong with me in the looks'/sexual way).
Way to make you paranoid, but what the hey. Perhaps she's sleeping with someone else still and the poor girl's conscience is eating away at her.
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Tell her to put out or get out. A relationship without sex is only friendship and if she's not talking it looks like she's not really interested in that either. Daddy may well be a millionaire but if he's not interested in giving any cash to her there's fat chance you'll get your hands on it either. Go find yourself a nymphomaniac and enjoy (yes they do exist and I was lucky enough to go out with one for a few months, happy, tiring days indeed).
Didn't quite work with my last girlfriend.
I guess the last sign was when, about a month before we broke up, we ran out of condoms. And didn't bother buying any more.
Indeed they do. I'm seeing one at the moment. Man it's great
.Hmm.. I have to admit I wouldn’t have actually taken her back. Once a girl screws with my mind I can be rather stubborn and normally have the mentality of “I wasn’t right for you back then – I’m not right for you now”.
Harsh, maybe but once I’ve been rejected and hurt once by a girl, then its adios for me…. Had this twice now – one of them taunted me a lot whenever I would see her as she was in the same social circle as my friends, saying “well you don’t want me anymore”… Attention seeking b*t*ch…
She left, went with someone else, then she came back. But why leave in the first place? You need to just talk with her – as already said. She needs to be honest with herself though before she can be truly honest with you, as so do you.
Is the relationship worth saving? Sometimes it really is better to move on… with girls it can be.
The problem with woman is that its not that they don’t like to have sex. They want it just as much as men can at times….. Its just that they only seem to want it when the man they are with is showing no interest. You show them you’re well into them, and then they’ll deny you if they think they can get it easily another time….
The danger is though, falling into the freindzone..!! Once you’re there then that’s it. I’ve never been able to stay friends with ex’s for more then a few months… The only reason men mostly want girls as friends is because they want to bang um. Sooner or later, the bloke cracks and blurts out their feelings – to be rejected mostly. Reason why mostly girls make bad friends for males…..
Reason why you need to talk and find out what it is your both doing….
Harsh, maybe but once I’ve been rejected and hurt once by a girl, then its adios for me…. Had this twice now – one of them taunted me a lot whenever I would see her as she was in the same social circle as my friends, saying “well you don’t want me anymore”… Attention seeking b*t*ch…
She left, went with someone else, then she came back. But why leave in the first place? You need to just talk with her – as already said. She needs to be honest with herself though before she can be truly honest with you, as so do you.
Is the relationship worth saving? Sometimes it really is better to move on… with girls it can be.
The problem with woman is that its not that they don’t like to have sex. They want it just as much as men can at times….. Its just that they only seem to want it when the man they are with is showing no interest. You show them you’re well into them, and then they’ll deny you if they think they can get it easily another time….
The danger is though, falling into the freindzone..!! Once you’re there then that’s it. I’ve never been able to stay friends with ex’s for more then a few months… The only reason men mostly want girls as friends is because they want to bang um. Sooner or later, the bloke cracks and blurts out their feelings – to be rejected mostly. Reason why mostly girls make bad friends for males…..
Reason why you need to talk and find out what it is your both doing….
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You just bummed her instead?
If only..sadly the sex had been crap for a while, so it got to the point where there was no point.
Doesn't sound good dude, as harsh as some of the comments on here sound, some are true.
Don't let them have it and they want it, resist them, i have driven woman mad with this, to the point where they will do it anywhere.
It's a trick, and a lesson, and a game and we all get better at it. There must be something stopping her from wanting it, what that is is anyones guess and speculating over it will destroy your confidence and depress you.
One last chance to talk about it, if her answer is poor, call it off. STAY STRONG because she might put out to keep you, but then return to how she is now. You will be amazed how much woman come crawling back once you have a new woman, i have experience of this, and went back to her. Trouble is they always revert back.
Don't let them have it and they want it, resist them, i have driven woman mad with this, to the point where they will do it anywhere.
It's a trick, and a lesson, and a game and we all get better at it. There must be something stopping her from wanting it, what that is is anyones guess and speculating over it will destroy your confidence and depress you.
One last chance to talk about it, if her answer is poor, call it off. STAY STRONG because she might put out to keep you, but then return to how she is now. You will be amazed how much woman come crawling back once you have a new woman, i have experience of this, and went back to her. Trouble is they always revert back.
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Quite simply the funniest thing I've read on here all day
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My 2 cents is that she is staying with you because you treat her well and she like the whole company thing; the bad part is that she does not feel attracted to you enough to have sex so she will keep you there for the puppy love bit whilst hoping to No Swearing! some dashing No Swearing! who steps up.
Reality be hard buddy.
Besides, if she ain't giving you none, tell her to go or keep her and No Swearing! someone else. Its a free world man.
Reality be hard buddy.
Besides, if she ain't giving you none, tell her to go or keep her and No Swearing! someone else. Its a free world man.
Don't prepare for the worst...if it feels like shes drifting apart from you and its going down the pan, dump her first. You might think thats harsh, but shes took the micheal once already, this time you can keep your self respect intact and not put up with it. my 2 pennies. j
I agree it's likely she may be having second thoughts and is keeping her distance. It is worth persisting in talking to her but try not to be too aggressive or pushy. Try and let her know whatever it is you would rather she told you than keep it to herself. That said try not to take the no holds barred approach suggested by some. I would hate to think what she (and you) would feel like if you found out after that she had something very bad going on that was stopping her. Some things in life are that bad that you can't just tell people outright. The thing is as we don't know her it's hard to say.
As for the guys who think that either girls don't like it as much as men or that they only want it when a guy shows no interest: Who are these strange women?!! Who doesn't want great sex? My only thought is perhaps they don't know their bodies that well and what does it for them. I'll probably get flamed now by ladies that can't be bothered with sex
As for the guys who think that either girls don't like it as much as men or that they only want it when a guy shows no interest: Who are these strange women?!! Who doesn't want great sex? My only thought is perhaps they don't know their bodies that well and what does it for them. I'll probably get flamed now by ladies that can't be bothered with sex
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As for the guys who think that either girls don't like it as much as men or that they only want it when a guy shows no interest: Who are these strange women?!! Who doesn't want great sex? My only thought is perhaps they don't know their bodies that well and what does it for them. I'll probably get flamed now by ladies that can't be bothered with sex
I was only joking!
In reality, I'm mobbed every time I leave the house by sex hungry women who've heard word of my legendary prowess and stamina.
You did notice that I referred to 'the guys' and I didn't quote you?
Perhaps I should have used more smilies too 
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You did notice that I referred to 'the guys' and I didn't quote you?
I think it was me that said it first, so I took all the blame and fell on my proverbial sword
I'll probably get flamed now by ladies that can't be bothered with sex
Nah. All the girls I know on here are strumpets - which is why I love them so very much.