married women tells me she loves me

You sure she's actually positive she's made a mistake with her current partner? And isn't just after some extra fun? If she's willing to do this to her husband, then she may be willing to do it to you in the future.

I would ask her to finish with her husband and sort her life out before there was any chance of a relationship happening.
 
Scuzi said:
Having evaluated the situation I have this advice.

Tap that ass and run.

Give her one then run away. Don't get into a relationship with her because she'll just ditch you for someone else in 6 months time. If you only bone her once you can cover your arse with the "I didn't know she was married" excuse when the disgruntled husband finds out, which he will.
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trouble is, i was at the wedding and the husband already knows that weve had a thing in the past so he is not to keen on me as it is
 
If she is genuinely unhappy in her marriage then she shouldn't be in it.

I was married for 4 years and for the last year i was unhappy, i never cheated on my ex wife cause thats just not my style but i was very unhappy and we had a child. It took me a year to grow a pair of nuts and tell her how i felt and the marriage came to an end. It has taken her around a year to be my friend again and now we get on better than ever and we are both happier.

My advice would be to not do anything with her and let her sort out her own relationship with her hubby first. If she is genuinely unhappy then she should get rid. To her the thought of you being there for her will be some security and an excuse to do it, which is not a good idea.

Let her make the decision about how her marriage pans out without you in the equasion.
 
paddyuk said:
trouble is, i was at the wedding and the husband already knows that weve had a thing in the past so he is not to keen on me as it is
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I wonder why?

HITMAN_LEON said:
Don't do it run, I just had my life wrecked by a guy like you who should have walked away and he's running scared do you want to look over your shoulder every time you leave the house. You are going to create an enemy that will go to the ends of the earth to make your life a misery.
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Listen to this guy. Think how angry and jealous men can get? He could be chasing you for a looooong time
 
There's a kid involved, all you can do is tell her to sort things out with her husband and walk away. Even if they do split anyway, it will be much easier on everyone if there's no an affair going on in the middle of it.
 
nokinidea said:
The Husband doesn't "always" find out.... ;) ;)
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But when he dose party is over then its time to start running, and remember husbands/boyfriends have friends/brothers/family and as well as that a whole lot of time. It can take a long time but then again revenge is a dish best served cold when the perpetrator thinks all is calm and the situation has cooled down to nothing. Yes im angry and evil mean and nasty you don't wan't any of that walk away or that guy might be taking designs of how to make you pay anger makes people very creative and they can get at you in ways you never thought possible. I just got the guy who messed in my life fired as he thought we were friends and told me the things he liked to get away with at work. He is jobless from 1 email to his comapny head office and never go's out of his house anymore, I have not even started to play yet, but then again he knew me and my nature. I can't abide liars or backstabbers he lied and stabbed me in the back wrecking my life in the process, so im going to do it to him *10. Go away while you have the option, what he dose not know can't hurt you but the longer it go's on the more chance he will find out then its open season on you.
 
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she got married 6months ago and has a son
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sorry but completely stupid woman.... I mean WTF shes got married, had a kid and all the while she wasnt sure about her feelings for another guy? what did she think marriage was?

She has betrayed her husband and family. If not in body then certainly in heart.

she thought she was happy but shes not blah blah blah
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spot the mistake in that sentence..

Question is do you help train wreck this sham of a marriage now or keep the heck away and tell her if she has any feelings for her husband and kid then she needs to be in Marriage guidance pronto!

Of course if it really is over (her marriage) and its not just her hormones on the fritz then sure get her and the kid to move in with you BAM everyone lives happily ever after


edit: and she gets some nice child support from the dad....what a great world we live in :D
 
Originally Posted by HITMAN_LEON
Don't do it run, I just had my life wrecked by a guy like you who should have walked away and he's running scared do you want to look over your shoulder every time you leave the house. You are going to create an enemy that will go to the ends of the earth to make your life a misery.
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LOL - good post. Did you get him Leon? :)
 
Married with a kid and still considering it? Dont do it mate, it wont ever end up happy for you. You will cause yourself serious grief.

Seriously, I dont understand the lack of morals with some people.
 
Surfer said:
LOL - good post. Did you get him Leon? :)
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He's got a sweat on and thats an understatement and I just got him fired from his job. He's soiling himself daily and dare not leave his house really so ill let him sweat for a long while before I go alpha on him, I just doubled my time weight training and boxing atm to take out my stress, and allow for a more alpha approach when we meet, although I could use him as a toothpick before I wan't him to urinate allover himself when he sees me in the street.
 
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