I think she is cheating……

Morba · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:01

poopots said:
Just get a friend to go with you! It's £50 at most to get the names on the flight changed over.

Since when? some airlines wont even allow a name change, others charge almost the same price as the original ticket.

Karl · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:06

Continental airlines (for example) point-blank refuse to change the name. Absolutely non-transferable in their case.

Dugganator · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:09

Magic_x_uk said:
No pictures or anything like that. Too old for that

I dont want revenge, but why does part of me want revenge, from silly things like returning her clothes to the shop, to letting her work know what's been going on with 2 of there staff, in works time. To even letting her parents know how low her daughter has stopped!

Saying that, she may have confided in them already, who knows

Still wont change anything even if you get on with her parents really well etc they will always support their child. Also normally women at this point will start to make things out to be worst then they are to make them feel better about being a cheating ****. IE they will exaggerate everything if you had a drink once a week you would be alcholic that would drink instead of paying her attention.

Its not easy if it gets to this stage as you feel bad and you havent done anything wrong. Just remember that you know the truth regardless of whats said. Just dont do anything stupid. To be honest the trust has gone its time to end the relationship dont let her turn you into a cash cow while she is seeing someone else. Man up .. ditch her and move on. I've been there and thats the best bit of advice I can give. If the trust is gone thats it game over regardless of if shes cheating or not dont be a mug.

Magic_x_uk · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:21

it wont be a nice situation when she finds out I have returned her clothing.

Although I will be nice and ask the shop to keep them aside for her for 24 hours. So if she wants them she can go get them.

But 1st I need to get concrete evidence. Because after all this there is a small chance I could be all wrong.

I wonder if this other guy will turn out to be worth it for her!

wordy · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:25

No offence Magic, but I don't think you'll do anything, you seem to be talking about things you'd like to do but keep putting it off or looking for excuses not to do.

Participant · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:26

B&W said:
Or so you think.

He's right! Dude check your dogs call logs and text messages and confront him NOW

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Magic_x_uk · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:26

wordy said:
No offence Magic, but I don't think you'll do anything, you seem to be talking about things you'd like to do but keep putting it off or looking for excuses not to do.

Because part of me still has feelings for her and when the moment arrives and I do start the final conversation, then it is over, only a matter of time and perhaps part of me still wants her in my home/life.

Mat · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:31

Magic_x_uk said:
Because part of me still has feelings for her and when the moment arrives and I do start the final conversation, then it is over, only a matter of time and perhaps part of me still wants her in my home/life.

I can understand that and it can take a lot of guts to face it, but sooner probably is better in this case.

Jock Dodds · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:31

[TW]Fox;11962528 said:
Why? How is it his fault?

Just for the sheer spectacle of it. Sure it is not his fault be he is hardly innocent.

Janesy B · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:32

Magic_x_uk said:
Because part of me still has feelings for her and when the moment arrives and I do start the final conversation, then it is over, only a matter of time and perhaps part of me still wants her in my home/life.

This is why you need concrete proof. once you find out she has been cheating you will lose all feelings for her, trust me on that one.

Magic_x_uk · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:37

Janesy B said:
This is why you need concrete proof. once you find out she has been cheating you will lose all feelings for her, trust me on that one.

Then I guess she has to join "view my mobile phone bill on the internet club" tonight / tomorrow morning.

FUFTUB · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:41

Magic_x_uk said:
Maybe I need to get on some dating sites and my ass down town and find a nice lass who fancies a nice holiday. No strings.

Yeah, cos that wouldnt seem stalkerish would it

Magic_x_uk · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:42

FUFTUB said:
Yeah, cos that wouldnt seem stalkerish would it

hay im trying to find humour here.

Norbert666 · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:42

FUFTUB said:
Yeah, cos that wouldnt seem stalkerish would it

This is the age of the internet. The 21st Century. You don't need to physically talk to people these days.

Talking is so last year!

Janesy B · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:43

i'm trying to find sense there IMO

gumbald · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:45

Find someone who is on T-Mobile but hasn't got the web thingy set up to do it and see if it texts their phone?

Richdog · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:45

Norbert666 said:
This is the age of the internet. The 21st Century. You don't need to physically talk to people these days.

Talking is so last year!

I know tis madness... next they will be saying that you have to have met someone to be going out with them! I see plenty of women each day from a distance and am having relationships with several of them. They just don't know it.

FUFTUB · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:47

Magic_x_uk said:
Then I guess she has to join "view my mobile phone bill on the internet club" tonight / tomorrow morning.

Then what, then you see that she has been ringing and texting a number. Just confirms what you have already been saying. You still dont know whose number this or anything. Will you ring it? Ask them who they are and why your girlfriend keeps contacting them? No, of course you won't. You'll probably withold your number, ring the number, hear a male voice then put the phone down, thus putting your imagination in to serious overdrive!

mysticsniper · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:49

Magic_x_uk said:
I seriously am thinking tomorrow is judgement day, especially after I take her sodding clothes back to the shop I bought for her, for the party that partners cannot attend, but yet I have been to 3 others.

Why don't you put that to the test, and call her boss. To mention about the party and make sure that partners cannot attend. My help you out with gathering some evidence for yourself either way.

Magic_x_uk · 25 Jun 2008 at 14:50

FUFTUB said:
Then what, then you see that she has been ringing and texting a number. Just confirms what you have already been saying. You still dont know whose number this or anything. Will you ring it? Ask them who they are and why your girlfriend keeps contacting them? No, of course you won't. You'll probably withold your number, ring the number, hear a male voice then put the phone down, thus putting your imagination in to serious overdrive!

No, I already have his number so I can compare!