once flybar paddles are roughly level... power up heli and then recheck while powered. If still not quite level I just give a little twist. (don't need to loosen anything, maybe not good for flybar as your twisting it, but seems to work and you can get them dead level in like 2-3secs)
double check the locking collar on main rotor axle hasn't slipped also..
way I take off is start to raise the throttle then as heli gets light and it starts to move I compensate for that with cyclic while increasing power further, that way you don't get much sideways motion while leaving ground... you can do that though in one quick motion once you get used to it and the sooner your up off the ground the better. You can't take off using left stick only...
biggest thing I worried about when learning was always the question 'what if heli does not fly and I just don't know it' ...without someone to flight check it your in the hands of the gods and could be bashing your head against wall and it has major fault. might be a good idea to invest 30 quid or so in that cheap clearview sim and usb controller, plus it's a lot of fun on sim as you can mess about with RC planes also.