How did your last break-up go?

MTA99 said:
MTA Synopsis:

Girl likes shiny things, boy buys girl shiny things, shiny things become tarnished, girl leaves boy. The end!
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He never bought me a thing that wasnt reciprocated by me thankyou, and we both paid our way. I just knew from things he said that if I wanted to he would look after me. I could have done that and taken the pee but I didnt, so please dont think I would.
/gets off soap box.
 
Damien. said:
Oh god, mine was a nightmare.

Id been with this girl for 2 years and i felt things just werent going anywhere so i wanted to end it and have some time to myself. Everytime i phoned her or mentioned it she would cry and make promises which made me feel so bad and always resulting in giving her a 2nd chance to improve things.

Eventually it just got too much and she wouldnt get the point so i ended up cheating on her. That way she finished with me. Not the best way of doing things and i dont suggest it but it got the job done. Im with a new Mrs now and im much much happier.
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Exactly the same as what I posted above for me :)

Except I managed to get it over and done with JUST before I scored a goal in the new hole ;)
 
Abraham said:
I seem to suffer proverbially from girls liking me a massive amount more than I like them :\ (not that i'm some stud, there's not been loads of them, all fairly long term, but they're always a lot more interested in the relationship than me)
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Find yourself looking at men?

:D;)
 
Last relationship I was in I called off as it was just fizzling out. The girl in question was expecting it too so me worrying about it before hand was pointless. Still sad tho.

Had an epic breakup in the past, mainly boiled down to me being a tard though.
 
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Tefal said:
Badly, I Was a bit cowardly about it and didn't do it quickly so it ended up hurting her more.

Best for both of you to do it quick.
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Have already let it go on for a long time.

I just kept trying and hoping things would improve, and the couple of times I did say it was time to break up, crysing and requests to give it one more chance meant I kept staying.

Have been together 4.5 years now and I have not been able to settle within the relationship and evenlanded up on anti-depressants for a year. We are just too different and want different things from life.

I know I need to leave but just keep thinking about the other person. I have the money to get out, but they don't have anything put aside, so I would really be leaving them in a bad spot.

I shouldn't need to suffer on in the relationship because they were unable to plan for any possible outcomes, but I can't bring myself to jsut leave someone with nowhere to go.

I feel so sick inside from the unhappiness, but unable to act.

Edit: Neither of us are bad people who wish the other harm. We are just not compatible, but they are mroe committed than I to the relationship.
 
Fiancee changed her mind a month and a half after saying yes, we split up, she moved out.

This was the end of June, and whilst I was pretty shattered at the time, I think it has been for the best, and my life is going pretty great at the moment.
 
ffallic said:
Have already let it go on for a long time.

I just kept trying and hoping things would improve, and the couple of times I did say it was time to break up, crysing and requests to give it one more chance meant I kept staying.

Have been together 4.5 years now and I have not been able to settle within the relationship and evenlanded up on anti-depressants for a year. We are just too different and want different things from life.

I know I need to leave but just keep thinking about the other person. I have the money to get out, but they don't have anything put aside, so I would really be leaving them in a bad spot.

I shouldn't need to suffer on in the relationship because they were unable to plan for any possible outcomes, but I can't bring myself to jsut leave someone with nowhere to go.

I feel so sick inside from the unhappiness, but unable to act.

Edit: Neither of us are bad people who wish the other harm. We are just not compatible, but they are mroe committed than I to the relationship.
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I did pretty much the same thing, but only for a year and 9 months.

After 1 year I realised that we weren't right for eachother, but she had no self-esteem and many issues in her life, so I kept it going to save her some stress until the timing was better.

Unfortunately, whilst waiting, I met someone who I could not pass up on, and had to cut things earlier than planned, destroyed her as a result, and she still hates me today.

That said, we were not right, and I should have ended it earlier, and inadvertently made it worse by trying to let her down gently.

Life's too short
 
romperstomper said:
.I think a better way is to just stop calling them if you can get away with it .

The modern way seems to be dump by text ,not nice but there is no nice way to dump someone .
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There may not be a nice way to dump someone, but there are plenty of respectful ways. Stopping calling them, or dumping them by text, are both incredibly disrespectful.
 
The more you think about it the harder it will be.
Do it right away dont think about it = win :D
 
ffallic said:
but they don't have anything put aside, so I would really be leaving them in a bad spot.

I shouldn't need to suffer on in the relationship because they were unable to plan for any possible outcomes, but I can't bring myself to jsut leave someone with nowhere to go.
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Yeah I had this ,just finish with them but make it clear that they can carry on living with you until they find other accommodation once they realise it is over they should move out pretty quick if they don't you will need to put a time limit say a couple of months max .
 
i had to dump my gf of 2 years the other month unfortunately, i still see her as friends and sometimes we fullfill our needs :D

But the world goes on and im sure someone is around the next corner. If your not right together, no point staying in the relationship
 
Went badly.
We were together for 12 years and owned a house together so the financial ramifications were considerable.
The break up nearly bankrupted me as I lost my job at around the same time.

She wants to be my friend. I want her to dissappear somewhere and never come back.

I'm happy now with my new Finnish fiancee and our daughter.
 
Blue Cypher said:
i had to dump my gf of 2 years the other month unfortunately, i still see her as friends and sometimes we fullfill our needs :D
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Yeah I have done that a few times only really works if neither of you were really into each other .My last one I did that with ended up punching me in the mouth so I guess it was not working as well as I had thought :D
 
romperstomper said:
Yeah I have done that a few times only really works if neither of you were really into each other .My last one I did that with ended up punching me in the mouth so I guess it was not working as well as I had thought :D
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Yeah i think she is doing it to only get back with me so i need to stop it, but i will be honest, she knows how to press all those buttons....and...well......its damn hard to say know at that point :D
 
Blue Cypher said:
Yeah i think she is doing it to only get back with me so i need to stop it, but i will be honest, she knows how to press all those buttons....and...well......its damn hard to say know at that point :D
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Then you arent doing her any favours and you need to stop. If both of you were doing it for just the sex then thats ok, but if shes doing it in the hope you might change your mind and take her back then you are just making a bad situation even worse.
 
knip said:
Then you arent doing her any favours and you need to stop. If both of you were doing it for just the sex then thats ok, but if shes doing it in the hope you might change your mind and take her back then you are just making a bad situation even worse.
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IMO, either of the above scenario's warrants pasty smashing. Get on it tbh!
 
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