I just cannot work out what the problem is, unless the OP has some sort of psychological problem
OP are you a christian that the sight of a nude woamn other than your wife causes you to break up in a cold sweat?

well my wife is home so iv told her all.
she laughed and gave me the biggest cuddle and my youngest daughter(21) said the woman must be desprate lol.
so now i will see what happens with her parents.
this time my brother and i will do the install.
now things seem ok.
again thanks
ok i tell my wife and she kicks off at work and looses her job.
NO WAY i have to sort it out somehow myself.
yes i loose sleep because its on my mind not all people are the same.
this **** has happend and i need to know how to deal with it but at the moment i dont know how.
my wife has just rang me from work asking am i ok because i took the day off work.
i said not to bad know but i need to talk to you when you come home.
well now she is paranoid saying whats up.
i said nothing just need to talk to you.
she asked if i have been to the doctors and i said no why,
she said well whats up your ok arnt you i said yes.
she knows somthing is wrong,i think she is going to finish early.
I do not understand this guy, his grammar and punctuation are among the worst I have ever seen, not to mention the farfetched story.
my wife has just rang me from work asking am i ok because i took the day off work.
i said not to bad know but i need to talk to you when you come home.
well now she is paranoid saying whats up.
i said nothing just need to talk to you.
she asked if i have been to the doctors and i said no why,
she said well whats up your ok arnt you i said yes.
she knows somthing is wrong,i think she is going to finish early.
Guys hes already told his wife he told her in January! read my last post above.