Hmm let's see. I got into MMO's while at Uni. So much spare time, doing a degree in I.T., so it was like a "give me the final year tests now and i'll pass" situation.
Planetside, then Star Wars Galaxies, then EQ2, then WoW and everything in between. I stopped really after WoW for some reason, mainly because i was on a US server, but i think i just got more into going out with mates. Though i would do 10 hours sessions a day easily when i did play. I'd get up early to play. Eat at my desk,etc.
Now i play WAR and a similar pattern is forming a few years later, but it's not that bad, it's like this: I live with my gf, we both work, her on nights 3 days of the week. When i get home i go on WAR, when she gets home she goes on Facebook (i think she is addicted, there's people who spend all night on it, funny how it's not seen in a bad way like games? hmm). When we first moved in together, it was just TV, hollyoaks, eastenders, etc,etc, then bed. Now, that is seen as normal and healthy isn't it? 6 hours infront of the idiot box. People are so blind. I'm in the small % of people, like on here, who each evening, uses their minds, gets creative, interacts with people. Most people are TV watching hypocrites.
Still go out at weekends and occasionally midweek with gf, and this is good, because without MMO's, i easily blow £200 a weekend on going out, damaging my kidneys even more.
As for balance, well, i'll be starting a 2nd degree in Jan in Engineering and tbh, if you got a brain, it's easy to balance it all.
My gf tells me i shut out my family, my world is inside my PC, as she's there, browsing facebook looking for any hint of activity, unable to prize herself away. As everyone else is tuning into the newest reality TV zombie show. As workers go into the pub after a shift and get drunk.
In comparison to what the majority of this country do during the week, playing MMO's should be praised...