Girlfriend "cheats" on me in our engagement party
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Next time correct her when she acts like this. Touch her sharply and make a "shhhhhp" sound. She will learn to associate this with being disciplined. This sharp touch is similar to when her mum would have disciplined her when she was young.
Always respond to her in a calm assertive state and reward her when she displays a calm submissive state of behaviour. The objective is to not create fear but to establish that you are the pack leader. This will then allow you to define what is acceptable behaviour for her to follow.
Be aware that she will respond to your energy, and that projecting the wrong sort of energy will cause her to respond in an undesirable manner.
From what you have described, she requires to be walked at least twice a day, as she will be easier to teach when she has a lower energy level.
If her behaviour is deemed wholely unacceptable, it may be necessary to put her on the floor, and restrain her belly up to display in a forceful manner that you are pack leader and that only a calm submissive state is acceptable. You may require others to assist you in doing this.
Good luck, and I hope that she is not a Red Zone case,
Regards,
CM
Always respond to her in a calm assertive state and reward her when she displays a calm submissive state of behaviour. The objective is to not create fear but to establish that you are the pack leader. This will then allow you to define what is acceptable behaviour for her to follow.
Be aware that she will respond to your energy, and that projecting the wrong sort of energy will cause her to respond in an undesirable manner.
From what you have described, she requires to be walked at least twice a day, as she will be easier to teach when she has a lower energy level.
If her behaviour is deemed wholely unacceptable, it may be necessary to put her on the floor, and restrain her belly up to display in a forceful manner that you are pack leader and that only a calm submissive state is acceptable. You may require others to assist you in doing this.
Good luck, and I hope that she is not a Red Zone case,
Regards,
CM
He is not her marionette!
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You know I was thinking about this and it could be partly your fault you know becuase of the way you acted, it sounds to me like you didn't read the signs properly and let your GF make a proper fall of herself while you just sat and watched.
That's just one possibility.
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Well he should have been a little responsible, if she was this drunk.
What is he, her keeper?
Whilst drunk?
NO, she just should at least try to stop you doing it!!!
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hes not married yet
women work in mysterious ways
anyways she didn't go too far, a few dances and a kiss that she pulled away from, plus she kept asking him if he was jealous
he should have read the signs and took her home for a good seeing to
No he's her other half which means looking out for one another, especially if the other person is drunk and out of control. He allowed things to get out of hand by standing by and spectating
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I'm just trying to look at it from all possible angles, I'm not saying that's the right one, end of the day though she was drunk and she is his partner so he should have a bit of responsibility for her.
Underlining issues?
ahhh
, well it worked in my head at the time .That opens a whole can of worms for the future though with that mindset. Bail her out enough times and then she can just behave like that all the time in even more extreme manners, because you'll always be there to sort it out...right? No.