Girlfriend "cheats" on me in our engagement party

Flirting and grinding for 30 mins is going to make what she told the op would happen a reality.

I think if she wanted that to really happen then she would have done it

She did do it. It doesn't matter what her intentions were.

I do find it odd that the OP didn't try and stop her at some stage during the 30 minute grind though.
 
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Right so the kissing is "irrelevant" now it's been re-established that it was he that was kissed her, not the other way around, so on that basis your prepared to end the relationship based on her strange behaviour before hand were she was blatantly trying to make him jealous, crazy seriously.

She hasn't cheated, she was drunk, she made a mistake, relationships aren't perfect, work through it, don't give up.

I really can't believe people give up on relationships so easily.

<shakes head in dismay>

Woah, hang on a minute, your telling me that you would take some tart back after putting herself on show after having a few?

How can she be trusted, yet everyone feels sorry for the girl, what a load of ****. If it was the bloke that had done this there would be hell to pay.
 
Woah, hang on a minute, your telling me that you would take some tart back after putting herself on show after having a few?

How can she be trusted, yet everyone feels sorry for the girl, what a load of ****. If it was the bloke that had done this there would be hell to pay.

I wouldn't of let her put herself on show, and If I'm being completely honest (although this does depend on how she said it) part of me would have been turned on by what she said :o so chances are I would have taken her home, sorry
 
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I wouldn't of let her put herself on show, and If I'm being completely honest (although this does depend on how she said it) part of me would have been turned on buy what she said :o so chances are I would have taken her home, sorry.

So if your girlfriend threatened to cheat on you, you would get turned on and take her home for a bonk?
 
Woah, hang on a minute, your telling me that you would take some tart back after putting herself on show after having a few?
People make mistakes...

If you had the perfect relationship, nothing wrong and you wanted to spend the rest of your life with the person, then this happened you'd just kick her to the kerb?
So if your girlfriend threatened to cheat on you, you would get turned on and take her home for a bonk?
That sounds about right to me... Oh god!
 
You'd be a prat to throw a good girl away over whats happened in my opinion.

The truth. Good girls are very hard to find. However I think ending it over a bit of stupid drunken behaviour was a bit harsh.

I think you should sit her down and get to her to tell you why she did it, there must be a reason.

Then you need to decide if you can still trust her as you've obviously seen a side of her personality you dont like. It'd make me uneasy. However you know her better than any of us and its a tricky situation/decision to make. Hope everything works out for the best.
 
You cant be that madly in love with her if you'd end it so quickly after something like this.

So rather than marry somebody you are clearly not arsed about, find somebody else.
 
People make mistakes...

If you had the perfect relationship, nothing wrong and you wanted to spend the rest of your life with the person, then this happened you'd just kick her to the kerb?

Your damn right I would. Firstly she done this for some unknown reason in the first place, and then carried on doing whatever to attract attention. How disrespectful is that to go behind someone else's back, fully knowing that her partner was there in the first place?

And for all these people who say she done this to try and find out whether her partner cared for her, does that mean that I could go out and shag another bird to find out whether my feelings were concrete in the first place?

Granted people make mistakes, but it boils my proverbial when people blame their shortcomings on Alcohol. If you know that Alcohol changes you into a different person then don't put yourself in the position in the first place.
 
hmm. if he knows the guy then yes,questions must be asked. who kisses the bride to be at an engagement party:rolleyes: he probably thought he scored with some random though.

either way the keyboard to head will get the justice required

I believe they went to a club after the party.
 
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