A message from his familyAbraham Biggs, Jr., My brother.
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Originally Posted by forumdwarf
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http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...id=283 885544 according to the myspace of a friend this is indeed serious. Even after making this thread I had hoped I was wrong, and that he would at least pull through if he had done it. I may not have known you in real life Abraham, but we are all greatful for your many many hilarious contributions to this site. Once again I'd like to say the hearts of the misc go out to the friends and family of Abraham K. Biggs. If any of you are out there reading this I'd just like you to know this isn't your fault.
I'd like to let everyone know that it has been confirmed by someone who knows him that Candyjunkie (Abraham) did pass away. If you knew him I just wanted to let you know (hopefully I speak for everyone when I say) we're truly sorry for your loss. We may not all feel the same way about the circumstances, or how things were handled, but this community does give you its sympathy. If theres anything that can be done for you or some of candyjunkie's family feel free to post in here, if you'd like to post anonymously send me a PM and I'll post it for you.
Hopefully we can all learn from this. In the future situations like these need to be handled as real and serious no matter what. I don't care if its the 10th thread that someone has made on the same subject; if their life is in danger that should be the 10th time the police have been to their house.
We may not all agree that what Abraham did was the right thing, or a brave thing, but we can all admit its something that could have, and should have, been prevented.
Mods: I'd like to request that you filter out inappropriate responses in this thread. The last thing the people mourning this loss want to see is someone they just lost being openly mocked.
Yes, he died yesterday. Dad came home to find police here and they told him that he'd already passed. He wasn't allowed up. We don't know how long he'd been gone. Thank you for the nice things that you said about that. He really was a riot.
I hope that nobody ever has to go through something like this. It is not easy. It is very difficult to understand. However, I'll share what I've gathered so far in the hopes that maybe it will help someone else out.
He suffered from bipolarism and depression (both of which may be hereditary). They are illnesses that somehow affect the mind. There are a few theories as to how. One of which has to do with neurological signals being dull or ineffective. He didn't usually have situational "triggers". He loved his life, his friends, and his family. Despite that love and despite fear of the unknown and afterlife, he had a compulsion to die. This compulsion didn't make sense to him (as it doesn't to most people) but it was still very strong. His Highs were very high and then would swing extremely, suicidally, low for no apparent reason.
His attempts and threats were exhausting, even to me. But it's part of the illness. The only reason they were "attempts" is because he had been caught before succeeding.
This illness was like a cancer in that the neurological control that we have over our choice to live, he did not have. This illness ate away at him everyday and everynight. He saw the good in his life and the friendships and love, and battled with this insane illness as best he could, but he didn't win. He didn't just give up. It won. Even up until the end, he still tried to reach out (which is one of the few ways we know how to fight this poorly understood disease), but it won. To those that tried to fight this exhausting battle with us, we thank you. Thank you for helping to extend our time with him. We tried... so hard. I'm so sorry. But, thank you for all that you did do.
Sincerely,
Rosalind Biggs (big sister)
ps: i only signed on the explain and thank and i will put the final arrangements that we make on this site if anyone is interested. I can't respond to pms, comments, or anything else, though. Sorry