A little shocked

She's hiding something...

At a guess I'd say what she was hiding was 6" long, pink and you don't own it..
 
Well its odvious you dont trust her, but confornting her without any real evidance is just gonna cause problems and fights, which is not good so close to christmas, think of the kids. Plus i dout she will admit to any wrong doing anyways.

As others have said get a key logger.

I know from experiance many married woman who get naughty on msn and yahoo and so on, but its just a bit of fun and they dont really act on it.

Anyways good look, if shes a jordie lass you will need it :)
 
what make of router do you own, If its a netgear, just ban all the sites such as facebook, friends reunited, msn etc, etc, see how she reacts.

or just break the phone line and connection.
 
Slight update.

I was about to ask her if she'd mind accassing facebook from her logon with me there, but too late she's deleted the account. Not as such deleted, more disabled as you can easily get it back. I dread to think what I'd find on there after this.

She says that social networking sites cause too many problems and she wants ot stay away from them. I told her that surely it's the way you want to be perceived thats caused this. I dont want her deleting her account as she has friends on there so it's like I'm the bad guy again.
 
Some shenanigans is going on. Be honest and confront it all, or do the devious, nerdy thing and keylog the PC!!! :)
 
I really feel for you. My ex did the quickly closing messenger down along with email when I walked in the room thing, after weeks of that I gave in to my paranoia and got into her email account only to find emails between herself and a guy at her college which were blatantly affair material. I broke it off there and then and she blamed me for snooping as though if I didn't know it would be ok.

With my current partner she had a friends reunited account when we first met and still being very paranoid I checked her email one day to find one of her old school friends flirting and arranging to meet up. I was on my way out the door with what little belongings I had at her house but she stopped me. In this case things worked out and we've been together 5 years now (I think it's 5 lol, men and dates eh)

If she's closing things down so you can't read what's on screen and stating she's single on sites then it doesn't rake a genius to work out what might be going on. Sit her down and tell her where you're coming from and be blunt about consequences i.e. leaving her. It doesn't matter how much one person might want something to work, a relationship is two way and it's not fair if one of you is racked with paranoia about what the other may be doing.
 
ask her to reactivate the facebook account for you.
yes its kinda bad that you would be asking it, but its kinda wrong her having something to hide.
 
GrOUP HUG!

Nip it in the bud now, her excuses are either completely made up on the spot or you married an idiot. You need to talk it out with her either way.
 
i'd check all her emails,txt messages, her credit card bill see what's she spending her money on etc. and install key logger or just sell her pc at MM.
 
When I initially asked her she went nuts accusing me of being a lousy husband a few years ago. It's not like I cheated or anything. We just seemed to argue about everything, but that was all behind us. Everything has been great for a long time now.
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That's not a good reaction at all, trying to start blaming you straight away.
 
She and thus your relationship has some majour issues. They need resolving not burying.
This doesn't mean she has cheated on you or anything else though (not on it's own anyway).

And snopping/keyloggers would only destroy any last reminents of trust if she found out.
 
I would get in her MSN account and chose save convos from the options.
after a few days read it. Then you will know the truth and act on it.

Or a software keylogger
 
The only reason I say keylogger, is because it seems blatantly obvious to us and you that she has something to hide.

Otherwise you'd not need to bother.

You could easily keylog it for a week without being detected. If you find nothing your trust is boosted, if you find something you don't have to be kept in the dark by her lying to you all the time.

If she won't be honest with you, the keylogger will be.
 
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