Major child scare last night - be careful

I remember awhile ago my friends sister was at a night club in Brighton with friends celebrating someones birthday. And she had her drink spiked supposedly, she was in a right terrible state when we picked her up.
 
"andy" said:
10 or 21 its still his child :/
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Azagoth said:
He's her Dad, she's his child. I fail to see where you can go wrong in your understanding of that concept.
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I didnt say she wasnt his child, just the topic made me think of young children.
Most people i know would not call their 21 year old a child.

are people not allowed to have something in their mind, based on the topic that is given, before actually entering the thread?
 
"andy" said:
you must be naive thinking that there arent sick people out there who do get a laugh and a kick out of seeing someone suffer from been spiked.
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im not saying that is not possible, but would that really be the first thought that enters your mind?
would you really be playing it down if it was your daughter?
 
Sorry to hear about this Dave and good to know she is now safe and well. Trully awful that people do things like this, whatever the motive.
 
Dave,

Sorry to be morbid but you'll be having nightmares and panic attacks about this for years. Just the thought of the "what if....?" scenarios about somebody running her over, or scooping her up and taking her etc.

I once found a mate unconscious and not breathing a couple of streets from our house. I managed to save him but I still go cold when I think of the alternative.

I don't envy you.

Happy new year by the way.
 
dmpoole said:
Does nobody read threads?
Daughter goes to her cousins for a party.
There are at least 15 people there she doesn't know.
She walks out because she isn't feeling too good.
She phones a taxi but decides to start walking.
I eventually find her about half a mile away lying on the dual carriageway.
I have no friends there except two Nephews, another daughter, two sister in laws and their husbands.

How exactly are the police going to investigate this?
Nobody has been attacked or raped.
You are making a very serious allegation that somebody had the intention of raping her when they might have been having a laugh.
Do you think they are going to round everybody up from the party and interrogate them until someone confesses?
Do you think as a Dad I should do the same thing?
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So because its a cousins party its ok, who ever was a that party will know who it was unless it was someone out of the blue that has never tried this before and it was a serious mistake even though they wanted to incapacitate a woman.

People have said its an offence to even spike someone and you are willing to ignore it as a harmless fun and a laugh, yet you need to post about it, it does not compute. You should be down you your nephew or niece finding out who was there.

Hyper said:
Ouch,

She has been lucky,

My mate got ran over 3 weeks ago after stepping out a taxi to be sick even though he had very little to drink that night,

He stepped out the wrong side of the taxi into the middle of the road and continued to be sick as another taxi came round the corner on a dark road and didnt see him (not that taxi drivers fault) and my mate was hit head on at 50.

At the time I was thinking of the worst but he came round and got away with just a broken femur.

He is recovering now and is eager to get back out :rolleyes:

/sorry for stealing thread just thought it was relevent.
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Rubbish 50 mph and he had a broken femur.

Why do people make up rubbish. 50 mph and you would be break more than your femur. Maybe it was 10 mph not 50, he would be launched into the air at that speed.
 
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"andy" said:
why would she knowingly take drugs then go outside where it is dangerous ?
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Am I the only one to question this statement?

Because people on drugs (Voluntarily taken or otherwise) aren't exactly renowned for their on-the-spot logical thinking.

Sorry to hear it though dmp, If you do truly believe your daughter, I would seriously try and find out who it was. You don't necessarily need to hand out punishment yourself, but if someone is spiking drinks they need to be dealt with. Even if no harm was intended (Can't really see how, but for argument's sake), she could have OD'd, or had a reaction, or anything.

It's shame when you can't go out anymore without some **** trying to mess things up :(
 
Shocked to hear of this DMP, as a father myself of a 12 year old who's rapidly coming on 18, I shudder when I think of this situation arising for me in a few years....

On another point, as you know, based in Hanchurch, I am one of the many 100's of truckers that thunder up & down that stretch of the A50 at night......

I am so very glad your not posting something a lot more tragic.

In some ways, she has been very fortunate - a lesson learned (not that she should have to, alas, this society...) and a life very probably, nearly lost.

As a warning to others at least, I'd think about letting the Police know of this and, possibly, the Sentinel ?

Obviously, that's your call.

All the best, and I hope she's ok.
 
WILL PEOPLE PLEASE READ WHAT I WROTE AND OTHERS HAVE WROTE

taliesyn said:
Someone having a laugh? You must have a very odd sense of humour.
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Somebody mentioned earlier that people now do it for a laugh with no intentions of rape

taliesyn said:
I have a 21 year old daughter, and I'll tell you one thing for certain - dad to dad, that I would do everything in my power to find out who did it, and make sure that they would think twice about ever doing it again.
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HOW?
Do you want me to get a list of attendees names & addresses (including girls) and get every one of them in a room?
Do you want me to shout at every one of them just in case it was one of them?
I'd love to know how you would do it.

asim18 said:
Has she got a mobile phone?
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R420LA6X2/4MNA said:
As a warning to others at least, I'd think about letting the Police know of this and, possibly, the Sentinel ?

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Yesterday I was in the office with 10 women and 7 of them claimed they had been drugged while out.
None of them had been sexually abused because they had all been with friends.
This is far to common for anybody to give a stuff about unless a sex attack happened.

Oh yeah, it doesn't matter if she's 3 or 40 - she is still my child.
 
Happened to a friend of mine. Her other half is my best mate, they were both out together she decided to continue with other friends to a club he went home.

About 4am he woke up and she wasn't home, checked his phone to find garbled txt messages from her. He knew something was wrong but couldn't call her because he's deaf. He rushed out into town trying to find her, eventually grabbed a police officer and asked them to call her.

Eventually found her wandering the streets amelessly completly out of it about 1 mile in the wrong direction
 
Glad it is just a warning story not something far worse. Must be horrible not being able to find out which pathetic excuse for a human being did that to your daughter.

Off to go tell my two year old I love him.
 
Believe me you know the difference between someone who's been spiked and someone who's just drunk - my mate was spiked in the University club and we know he'd only had 2 pints at the most. He was stumbling about, getting incredibly emotional and collapsed outside. He kept vomiting and losing consciousness and it wasnt a pretty sight.

Obviously either someone did it by mistake (wrong drink) or for a laugh, either way its disgusting
 
thecremeegg said:
Believe me you know the difference between someone who's been spiked and someone who's just drunk -
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Same here - I spent may hours in Drug rehabs & drop in centres while I was doing my Drugs Awareness courses.
It was amazing how the experienced could tell what a person was on just how they entered through the door and walked to the counter.

I know both of my daughters inside out because I reared them and I also know how they react on different amounts of alcohol.
Some of you like to think you're smarter than your Mummy's and Daddy's but you're not because they can see the body language (unless they're bad parents of course).
When I picked her up off the road she wasn't the same person and knew she wanted help and not a telling off (yes, I do tell them off for getting too drunk).

ANYWAY, the thread is about being careful, not just christmas but all the year round and though you may be with friends they might decide to 'have a laugh'.
 
dmpoole said:
Same here - I spent may hours in Drug rehabs & drop in centres while I was doing my Drugs Awareness courses.
It was amazing how the experienced could tell what a person was on just how they entered through the door and walked to the counter.

I know both of my daughters inside out because I reared them and I also know how they react on different amounts of alcohol.
Some of you like to think you're smarter than your Mummy's and Daddy's but you're not because they can see the body language (unless they're bad parents of course).
When I picked her up off the road she wasn't the same person and knew she wanted help and not a telling off (yes, I do tell them off for getting too drunk).

ANYWAY, the thread is about being careful, not just christmas but all the year round and though you may be with friends they might decide to 'have a laugh'.
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you talk about "drug awareness courses" way too much, like your brainwashed by sterotypical examples of a drunk/drugged person, lots of people behave differently some appear normal.

your saying my parents are bad ones because they cant tell that im lying, now i must agree with someone else who posted a while ago, you are incredibily nieve. You cannot tell im lying, neither can my parents, or my friends, or the police.

PS: im not saying she was lying, but it does seem she lies so well you cannot even comprehend she is lying
 
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