Major child scare last night - be careful

SexyGreyFox · 31 Dec 2008 at 13:22

platinum87 said:
you talk about "drug awareness courses" way too much, like your brainwashed by sterotypical examples of a drunk/drugged person, lots of people behave differently some appear normal.

Any professional will tell you (and I'm definitely not one) that there are certain characteristics that come through with different drug abuse.

platinum87 said:
your saying my parents are bad ones because they cant tell that im lying, now i must agree with someone else who posted a while ago, you are incredibily nieve. You cannot tell im lying, neither can my parents, or my friends, or the police.

If you think that the woman & man who changed your nappies and watched you grow up every day can't tell when you're not being truthful then it is you thats nieve.
As soon as you walk out the door they will turn to each other and shake their heads or they just don't give a toss.
I know other parents of older kids will back me up on this.
I'll wager my Mum knows when I'm not being truthful with her.

Scania · 31 Dec 2008 at 13:23

dmpoole said:
Oh yeah, it doesn't matter if she's 3 or 40 - she is still my child.

Aye, same sentiment here.

platinum87 · 31 Dec 2008 at 13:36

dmpoole said:
If you think that the woman & man who changed your nappies and watched you grow up every day can't tell when you're not being truthful then it is you thats nieve.
As soon as you walk out the door they will turn to each other and shake their heads or they just don't give a toss.
I know other parents of older kids will back me up on this.
I'll wager my Mum knows when I'm not being truthful with her.

this is where you are wrong sir!

if i wasnt good at lying to "professionals" id have a criminal record right now

Sweetloaf · 31 Dec 2008 at 13:55

platinum87 said:
this is where you are wrong sir!

if i wasnt good at lying to "professionals" id have a criminal record right now

Maybe he knows his daughter well enough to realise that she wouldn't even try to lie in a situation like this.

The fact is he trusts her and we have absolutely no reason to believe he shouldn't. He knows his own daughter better than random people on the internet who have convinced themselves that she is lying so take his word for it, you have no reason not too.

SexyGreyFox · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:42

platinum87 said:
this is where you are wrong sir!

if i wasnt good at lying to "professionals" id have a criminal record right now

When you're old enough to have your own children you will look on your post and say 'dmpoole was right'.
We parents watch our children from their birth until we die and we know what makes them tick.
It may take a lifetime to work out what your wife is thinking but with your kids its naturally learnt.
I honestly doubt there is a parent on these boards that will disagree with me.

The trouble with teenagers is that they think they are the first to do things.
They can't imagine their parents having done drugs, having pre-marital sex or watching porno's.
Me on the other hand could hear my mum & dad at it, I knew my Dad smoked dope and I found his porn collection around 1970.
He found mine around 1972 because I kept it in my Black Sabbath Master Of Reality album because it was a thick box.

Morba · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:45

cheets64 said:
Rubbish 50 mph and he had a broken femur.

Why do people make up rubbish. 50 mph and you would be break more than your femur. Maybe it was 10 mph not 50, he would be launched into the air at that speed.

Why? the person hit was drunk and probably not aware it was about to happen. many people get away with pretty bad hits because they are drunk.

go look on the BBC website for a vid of the 2 women on the M6 iirc, they were hit very hard but had next to no injuries.
there was a bloke on road wars the other night, he was stumbling across the road and was hit VERY hard, but was pretty much ok.

SexyGreyFox · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:47

Morba said:
go look on the BBC website for a vid of the 2 women on the M6 iirc, they were hit very hard but had next to no injuries.

One of them had part of their leg removed but she still tried to escape out of the ward.

Morba · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:51

dmpoole said:
One of them had part of their leg removed but she still tried to escape out of the ward.

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7636577.stm

just says one was in hospital for 7 weeks but recovered and the other was fine anyway.

Feek · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:53

This thread amazes me.

platinum87 · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:59

to clarify, i didnt say she was lying, and i dont even think she is lying.. i just am a bit interested by how you think that its impossible she can lie to you without you knowing it

so now thats out of the way..

-but your not right
-your still nieve that you know everything
-if you thought your the first to do something thats your own stupidity, you are transcribing your own ideas upon others
-you dont admit its possible and you say every parent in the world knows when their child is lying (basically)

^TANK^ · 31 Dec 2008 at 15:59

I see what you're saying dmpoole, my mum and dad could always tell if I had taken something or up to something know matter how hard I tried to hide it from them. It was like a sixth sense to them I guess.

Nitefly · 31 Dec 2008 at 16:03

Ben M said:
is that true about people in L. lounge then?

No, L. Lounge is more full of 'beer lariness' rather than anything more sinister.

I know of people who claim to have been spiked but clearly just drank way, way too much. Not saying that regarding Dave's daughter, but it is possible for it to occur.

I hope she has fully recovered.

platinum87 · 31 Dec 2008 at 16:18

^TANK^ said:
I see what you're saying dmpoole, my mum and dad could always tell if I had taken something or up to something know matter how hard I tried to hide it from them. It was like a sixth sense to them I guess.

i believe this is because you are soft and care about tiny animals welfare.

SexyGreyFox · 31 Dec 2008 at 17:58

platinum87 said:
to clarify, i didnt say she was lying, and i dont even think she is lying.. i just am a bit interested by how you think that its impossible she can lie to you without you knowing it

so now thats out of the way..

-but your not right
-your still nieve that you know everything
-if you thought your the first to do something thats your own stupidity, you are transcribing your own ideas upon others
-you dont admit its possible and you say every parent in the world knows when their child is lying (basically)

1 - She won't lie to me because I'll see her body language.
If she does it on the phone I will hear her voice change.
If I ever found out they had lied to me they know Daddy would not be happy.
Daddy has always let them have and do whatever they want as long as they're straight with me.
They don't even pay a penny in their upkeep and earn more than I do.

2 - I don't know everything :confused:

3 - I said that a lot of teenagers think they're the first to do something and can't believe that their Mummys and Daddys got up to stuff.
I learnt before I was a teenager that Mummy & Daddy got up to stuff.

4 - There are some very bad parents around and thats why my wife will always be in a job.
Some parents don't care about their kids and have no parenting skills at all, in fact they wouldn't even know when their child is hungry or in distress.
I may be clutching at straws here but I reckon you've been bought up by loving parents who know you inside out.

platinum87 · 31 Dec 2008 at 18:12

dmpoole said:
I may be clutching at straws here but I reckon you've been bought up by loving parents who know you inside out.

perhaps, but they wouldnt be able to tell if im lying or telling the truth atleast not since i was 15 or so, certainly not that i am 21.

hell my best friends for 10 years cannot tell im lying, and they are the most qualified i would say, mabye its just me, mabye its different for you but your claim is that it applies to everyone, im simply attacking that

SexyGreyFox · 31 Dec 2008 at 18:21

platinum87 said:
perhaps, but they wouldnt be able to tell if im lying or telling the truth atleast not since i was 15 or so, certainly not that i am 21.

If they are caring parents they'll know what makes you tick, your friends will not know you and you won't know them.

platinum87 said:
your claim is that it applies to everyone, im simply attacking that

Only parents who have taken an interest in their kids since birth.
Some parents shouldn't be parents.

platinum87 · 1 Jan 2009 at 13:32

dmpoole said:
If they are caring parents they'll know what makes you tick, your friends will not know you and you won't know them.

Only parents who have taken an interest in their kids since birth.
Some parents shouldn't be parents.

i dont understand how you can sit there and say my parents are bad parents

its clear to me that you cant tell when your wrong, and belive everything you say is true.

SexyGreyFox · 1 Jan 2009 at 13:40

platinum87 said:
i dont understand how you can sit there and say my parents are bad parents

its clear to me that you cant tell when your wrong, and belive everything you say is true.

When have I said your parents are bad parents?
You are totally under the illusion that this mother who had you and watched EVERY sign on your face and body language since birth doesn't know you.
When you have your own child you will 100% agree with me.
It is you who is wrong and every parent on here will agree with me that they can see all these little traits in their offspring.

platinum87 · 1 Jan 2009 at 13:57

dmpoole said:
When have I said your parents are bad parents?
You are totally under the illusion that this mother who had you and watched EVERY sign on your face and body language since birth doesn't know you.
When you have your own child you will 100% agree with me.
It is you who is wrong and every parent on here will agree with me that they can see all these little traits in their offspring.

you said it indirectly, the only 2 options being, im wrong or they are bad parents, which both options are wrong

they know they cant, hand that sort of convo a few times

if i can tell my child is lying to me, i will be very upset towards him/her i would say .. "!!! if i can tell your lying, how do you expect the police or anyone else to fall for it???" i would then begin to try to teach those skills..

mabye say the "majority" and i would let it go, but not all, why no-one else hasnt said anything is beyond me.

what does it take to prove to you that my parents stopped being able to tell i am lying a long time ago?

SexyGreyFox · 1 Jan 2009 at 14:05

platinum87 said:
what does it take to prove to you that my parents stopped being able to tell i am lying a long time ago?

You were either bought up sitting in front of a TV while your parents took no interest in you OR your parents doted on you, watched you grow up, watched every sign you were in distress etc etc - choose one.
Those skills don't leave a good parent.
I expect your parents (like every good parents) will still look across the room and give subtle eye contact to each other that you don't see.