In your case I would say Ski - as your son will be able to copy you (unless you're crap

) and your missus can't complain that she has to be with your son all the time picking him up etc as you can't get back up the slope as you're strapped in to a gay tray
Is it not easier to have a couple of lessons on skis and a couple on snowboards and hten see which you prefer?
Seeing as how we've started another skiing/snowboarding debate I'll add my 2 pence worth.
I've never met an arrogant skiier in a park, a few spoilt kids with mummy and daddy in Val D'isere who almost wipe you out as they can't ski well and then shout at you as if you're scum because you can carve properly and they can't even do parallel turns. But never in a park, and never at Xscape either.
Eg. last time I was at SnowStorm there was a guy doing backflips on his skis, but he opted to miss out a couple of bumps before the main kicker and just hit said kicker, so was waiting patiently for a gap in the flow of traffic to go and hit the kicker. All the skiiers (bar a couple of chavs) gave him the thumbs up to go but every time he'd go to set off a ****ing boarder would cut him up and he'd have to walk back up a bit.
This is the case with most snowboarders in resorts too, they
do stop over the brow of a crest, they
do just turn whenever they like across an entire piste to go and do a stupid ******* ***** 180 on a 2ft kicker and then attempt to ride in 2" of powder and cover people in said powder who get in their way.
Also the only grief I've ever had on a piste was off some stupid french boarder who decided that he wanted to cut across in front of me as I was sat down on my skis (still skiing, just sat on the back - not stopped if you get me) and he actually went OVER my skis. Of course his board slipped and he almost fell over and started mouthing off something in French at me, to which I responded in a not-so-polite way. Next thing I know, he is at the bottom with about 5 or 6 boarders waiting for me and walking towards me giving it a load of mouth. As soon as I took my skis off though he shut up for some reason, not quite sure why as there were 5 or 6 of them and just me and a mate on our skis. Absolute ****er!
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