I get the feeling you wont be around here much longer, its a shame, you actually make me laugh. I feel guilty for laughing though.
Oooh a dating question!
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I get the feeling you wont be around here much longer, its a shame, you actually make me laugh. I feel guilty for laughing though.
What, so you can spam her bits?
I thought you knew that women only go for horrible men. Pull her hair and kick her shins man, she'll be all over you.
What's with all the "Oooh you have to wait x amount of weeks before doing stuff"? Surely if it feels right then its OK. Life isnt a book so you cant judge what you do by what others do!
I mean look at me. My friends all told me it was too soon to take my GF to Paris for her B'Day. I ignored them and did it anyway. End result? Well OK I found out she was cheating on me with her "ex" and I don't talk to her anymore, but hey, if it feels right do it!
In some roundabout way what I'm trying to say is I could have left it longer, but the end result would have been the same. She was sucking more sausage than a german butcher and time wouldnt have changed any of that. I could have saved the money but I had a good time and persuaded her parents to pay for her half anyway after it all happened
I mean look at me. My friends all told me it was too soon to take my GF to Paris for her B'Day. I ignored them and did it anyway. End result? Well OK I found out she was cheating on me with her "ex" and I don't talk to her anymore, but hey, if it feels right do it!
In some roundabout way what I'm trying to say is I could have left it longer, but the end result would have been the same. She was sucking more sausage than a german butcher and time wouldnt have changed any of that. I could have saved the money but I had a good time and persuaded her parents to pay for her half anyway after it all happened
Hehe, did you actually read what you quoted?
No can't say I bothered just thought I'd use the excuse to have a quick rant about male psychology
Only kidding of course I read what you wrote
As far as that soppy romantic stuff goes 'Empty vessels make the most noise' generally men FEAR commitment, morgates, prenancy, rug rats, in laws the whole shebang, men who try and convince you that they really want you before they've even had much of a chance to get to know you proably want something
unfortunatley it's unlikely a long and lasting deep emotional commitment to someone is what there really after *nudge nudge wink wink**feels kinda nasty and dirty having to talk through all that stupidness and considers going down the pub to get hammered to forget it all*
What's with all the "Oooh you have to wait x amount of weeks before doing stuff"? Surely if it feels right then its OK. Life isnt a book so you cant judge what you do by what others do!
I mean look at me. My friends all told me it was too soon to take my GF to Paris for her B'Day. I ignored them and did it anyway. End result? Well OK I found out she was cheating on me with her "ex" and I don't talk to her anymore, but hey, if it feels right do it!
In some roundabout way what I'm trying to say is I could have left it longer, but the end result would have been the same. She was sucking more sausage than a german butcher and time wouldnt have changed any of that. I could have saved the money but I had a good time and persuaded her parents to pay for her half anyway after it all happened
Sucks being there done that too, some women are a right nasty piece of work.
He goes out to dinner every week with his brothers and sister in law, he asked if I'd like to go with them one week, which sounds ok to me, it's hardly a 'meet the parents' moment and he has been saying there's no pressure for me to say yes. I think after he'd said it he must have thought 'oh ****, she's gonna run a mile now...'
I like this thread. enjoyable read.
I really dont think you can judge a relationship on 2 and a half weeks worth of knowing eachother.
I cant stand people that do that.
I..... I think hes the one !
"how long you known him"
2 weeks
"lolwhat !"
I just cant see how you can see how you can say you love him so much within just 2 weeks.
POP QUIZ TIME !!! How much do you know about your man.
a) D.O.B
b) fav colour
c) bad habits
d) fav food
e) childhood dream job
f) current job
g) fav past time
Theres prob a lot more on the real quiz but hey ho. ofc this is just a forum so I dont expect you to answer them questions.
I just want to know what makes you so confident that this guy you have known for 2 and a half weeks after very recently dropping the interweb guy (who you thought was great at the time) is "the one" what makes you so sure you could spend the rest of your life with this fella
*p.s grammar nazi's - yes my grammer and spelling is crap i accept and acknowledge it is.
I really dont think you can judge a relationship on 2 and a half weeks worth of knowing eachother.
I cant stand people that do that.
I..... I think hes the one !
"how long you known him"
2 weeks
"lolwhat !"
I just cant see how you can see how you can say you love him so much within just 2 weeks.
POP QUIZ TIME !!! How much do you know about your man.
a) D.O.B
b) fav colour
c) bad habits
d) fav food
e) childhood dream job
f) current job
g) fav past time
Theres prob a lot more on the real quiz but hey ho. ofc this is just a forum so I dont expect you to answer them questions.
I just want to know what makes you so confident that this guy you have known for 2 and a half weeks after very recently dropping the interweb guy (who you thought was great at the time) is "the one" what makes you so sure you could spend the rest of your life with this fella
*p.s grammar nazi's - yes my grammer and spelling is crap i accept and acknowledge it is.
Hey if your into this guy go for it, it's hard to tell the whole picture from a couple of posts on the forums, like is he shouting all over the pub 'this is me misses lads' or is he whispering these things quietly to you in some of your quiter moments, best just to ingnore my lonely cynisism and do what you feel is right, go into it with your eyes open, decide what you are really looking for and go for it but don't forget to set your own boundries and respect them as you are the one who really knows you best in this life. Have fun hope it works out well for you
I must say, your post was a very enjoyable read too, made me laugh.
So at what point did I say I love him and at what point did I say he's 'the one'?
This forum amazes me sometimes...
But don't worry Adsta, one day you might get a girlfriend too!
I must say, your post was a very enjoyable read too, made me laugh.
So at what point did I say I love him and at what point did I say he's 'the one'?
This forum amazes me sometimes...
But don't worry Adsta, one day you might get a girlfriend too!
Soooo, you hot?
Selective quoting pwnage?
Thank you Knubje saved me the effort of having to quote it for her....
I have a girlfriend thank you I've been with her for 4 years now
Its people like you that amaze me cannot even be consistant with your posts so
right back at ya.
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I'd say ignore most people in this thread. Do things as fast or slow as you're happy with but most of all enjoy it and have fun.
Thank you Knubje saved me the effort of having to quote it for her....
I have a girlfriend thank you I've been with her for 4 years now
Its people like you that amaze me cannot even be consistant with your posts so
You do know I quoted her from the post above and just took bits out
Personally, good for Tis' and the bloke in question and good for you for being with your lady for 4 years.
Also, to Adsta and his comments: My Grandad met my Grandma back in the day and within 1 month he had proposed; they celebrated their diamond wedding anniversary the year before last.
Essentially everyone:
1) It's not a competition
2) People are different
Thank you Knubje, most appreciated
To Adsta and everyone else - I'm dating someone, he's asked me to meet his family and calls me his girlfriend. That's all. He's a nice guy and I enjoy spending time with him, I fail to see what all the fuss is about.
To Adsta and everyone else - I'm dating someone, he's asked me to meet his family and calls me his girlfriend. That's all. He's a nice guy and I enjoy spending time with him, I fail to see what all the fuss is about.
Consider it jealous cynicism derrived from a culturally inflated sense of self. Oh, and lulz.
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Thank you Knubje, most appreciated
To Adsta and everyone else - I'm dating someone, he's asked me to meet his family and calls me his girlfriend. That's all. He's a nice guy and I enjoy spending time with him, I fail to see what all the fuss is about.
Hey sexylegs, You've been on here long enough now to know that certain people on here fuss about anything, it's the nature of the internet, I'd personally suggest not to rush 'things' but then it doesn't sound like you are anyway tbh, end of the day just have fun and enjoy the time you have together, if you want serious advice about your relationship the internet can be 'fun' but your closest friends will offer better advice, you have to take what people on here say with a pinch of salt.