Back with an EX

uber soldat · 12 Mar 2009 at 09:21

Bengaboy said:
Word of advice - never destroy her on facebook!

If she was 15 that might work but what are the chances of someone wanting to be with a 15 yr old? Oh wait.......................

Brokeback · 12 Mar 2009 at 12:40

I broke up with my bird a few months ago but we have been on and off seeing each other because she 'needed space to work things out in her head' currently not going out but she says she still loves me but still needs space anyone else been in this situation?

DB_SamX · 12 Mar 2009 at 12:51

Brokeback said:
I broke up with my bird a few months ago but we have been on and off seeing each other because she 'needed space to work things out in her head' currently not going out but she says she still loves me but still needs space anyone else been in this situation?

I too really don't understand this mentality, which seems to be common with women - I still like you, care for you, find you attractive, etc, but want to have a break / break up / work things out, etc? It just does not make sense.

Can a woman on here please enlighten me/us? If there's something wrong and they need to work things out, why not just share the problem first, then try to resolve it?

stinamoo · 12 Mar 2009 at 12:57

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Yas786 · 12 Mar 2009 at 13:02

Just recently got back with my ex...well we arent in relationship but more for the sex if anything. We both know that a relationship like ours would never work plus her kids are a big issue for me...her youngest is cool as a cucumber with me and i adore him to bits but the eldest one is a little git...god knows how i managed not to smack his face in. But because of him, my ex will never be happy...he likes to control my ex's life and hes only 13...the thing is she lets him do it, ive told her she needs to get some control back in her life but she wont listen.

But anyways ive been seeing her for the past 2 weeks since we broke up back in Nov of last yr...the sex is still amazing and really thats the only reason why we are kinda together...i just dont spend nites there anymore and neither do i want to tbh.

mattyprice4004 · 12 Mar 2009 at 13:24

knowlesy said:
you need a stupid suit ... but if it works it works

Thanks

Edit: There's a girl in the thread! :eek:

robnut · 12 Mar 2009 at 13:35

I broke up with my Gf and got back together after 9 months. That was 5 years ago and things have never been better.

!bluetonic! · 12 Mar 2009 at 13:49

I've been wanting to get back with my ex for the best part of a year.

Then I look back and she was the one that wanted to break up and admitting to kiss two other guys towards the end of our relationship.

I've now decided I'm better than that and wanting to go back to an ex is lazy.

I was almost coping "just as friends", but I've had enough of that now. So have tried to break 98% of all contact.

jakeke · 12 Mar 2009 at 13:57

Was with my girlfriend for about a year and a half when huge problems came and basically we had a few months of real, true, awful, terrible hell (we were sort of together through the hell, kept trying to make it work, then splitting etc. etc.) and I was well and truly ready to throw the towel in, so we did. Anyway we got back together after a few weeks and we both promised to try harder (this was about 3 months ago). There were 1 or 2 initial arguments but now I've been thoroughly happy for 3 months and things are great. Maybe we just needed the few weeks apart. Anyway, it's easy to make it happen again if she is the girl for you. I knew this one was the girl for me and that's the only reason I tried again, not to rekindle old memories, or 'cos there was nothing else on, I knew this was the girl for me so I agreed to try again and obviously it worked.

DB_SamX · 12 Mar 2009 at 14:04

jakeke said:
Was with my girlfriend for about a year and a half when huge problems came and basically we had a few months of real, true, awful, terrible hell (we were sort of together through the hell, kept trying to make it work, then splitting etc. etc.) and I was well and truly ready to throw the towel in, so we did. Anyway we got back together after a few weeks and we both promised to try harder (this was about 3 months ago). There were 1 or 2 initial arguments but now I've been thoroughly happy for 3 months and things are great. Maybe we just needed the few weeks apart. Anyway, it's easy to make it happen again if she is the girl for you. I knew this one was the girl for me and that's the only reason I tried again, not to rekindle old memories, or 'cos there was nothing else on, I knew this was the girl for me so I agreed to try again and obviously it worked.

Best of luck to you two then.

!bluetonic! · 12 Mar 2009 at 14:08

robnut said:
I broke up with my Gf and got back together after 9 months. That was 5 years ago and things have never been better.

Was she pregnant?

NitrogenY3K · 12 Mar 2009 at 14:15

DB_SamX said:
I too really don't understand this mentality, which seems to be common with women - I still like you, care for you, find you attractive, etc, but want to have a break / break up / work things out, etc? It just does not make sense.

Can a woman on here please enlighten me/us? If there's something wrong and they need to work things out, why not just share the problem first, then try to resolve it?

She is just talking a load of bull **** mate, she probably just wants to sleep with other people but keep you dangling so she has always got someone there. Tell her where to go, and be harsh about it.