Think I'm about to get screwed over by eBay/Paypal

The guy claims to be "cpu illiterate" and still bought it even though I stated on the auction 'do not buy unless you know what you're doing'.

That he referred to the pins as "rods" and mentioned a "CPU store" would indicate to me that he doesn't :p

Good luck getting it sorted – I'm interested to see how things develop.
 
There are no cards linked to my account, just my bank account and I presume they cannot take money from this without my permission?

The guy claims to be "cpu illiterate" and still bought it even though I stated on the auction 'do not buy unless you know what you're doing'.

Go and unlink your bank account as well. Otherwise they'll just take the money anyway.
 
If you do go the path of refusing PayPal access to any money, be weary on ever setting up a new account with them. I've read cases on them linking together the two accounts then imposing the original charge.

They really are a ruthless company. I'm currently in a six week process to get back 700 pounds from a limited account.
 
Unlinked my bank account as well. I actually had my current account as my paypal account, which after reading around the subject realise is a daft thing to do. Will set up a seperate account if I continue to use paypal in the future.

There still a possibility the guy is genuine and it's been damaged in shipping or by this shop he took it to. Either that or he's a very good liar, I have hope for humanity yet.
 
Why does everyone refuse to look at things from all angles?
So in this case the OP tells us that he sent the item well packaged.
That it was working and there was no damage.
For that reason he is right and must automatically win.
If he tells PayPal all this and they refuse him the win then they are thieves, they are scum and you should never deal with them again.

Well guess what - people lie.
*Please Note* - This is an "example post", I am in no way accusing the OP of lying.

Paypal cannot just automatically accept a person's testomony that the item sent was 100% perfect because I know of people who have received broken and damaged items.
In a "dispute" somebody is always going to lose - there is no way around this and at the end of the day it is the person who has the best evidence on their side that will win.
Sorry "Paypal hater bandwagen jumpers" - Paypal do not automatically side, they look at the evidence.
This is just like criminal law - sometimes the guilty are set free, sometimes the innocent are jailed.
Mistakes happen but thankfully, most of the time everything goes fine.

Paypal do millions of transactions every week and for the "odd one" to go wrong is still impressive.
Heck the OP hasn't even had a dispute against him raised yet, yet alone been asked to provide any evidence yet some people on here are already taking the "anti Paypal stance".

I have an EBay rating of 165 and all of those transactions have been via Paypal.
I've bought and I've sold.
The majority of these have gone through fine - the odd dispute has been raised against me and I've had the need to raise a couple myself.
On every single occasion except one I've won the dispute - that is as both a seller and buyer.
The only one I lost was during my early EBay days and when I look back my item description should have been better, so I did lose that one.

I personally know many EBay/Paypal users and I don't actually know personally anyone who has had "all of the hassle" some of you describe.
I think some people go looking for trouble, make stories up or are simply jumping on to the same bandwagon the "AOL and M$" people are on (the one where only around 10% of those people have actually used the service in question, yet all 100% of them **** it off).
 
Just open another paypal account with a different credit card.

I just left mine for a few weeks, until I was sure the buyer wasnt going to go any further.

After a bit, ebay started chasing the fees so I just re-associated the same card again
 
Why does everyone refuse to look at things from all angles?
So in this case the OP tells us that he sent the item well packaged.
That it was working and there was no damage.
For that reason he is right and must automatically win.
If he tells PayPal all this and they refuse him the win then they are thieves, they are scum and you should never deal with them again.

Well guess what - people lie.
*Please Note* - This is an "example post", I am in no way accusing the OP of lying.

I appreciate you're not suggesting he was lying/mistaken, but I think for the purposes of discussion, it's sensible to assume what he says is true and give advice accordingly.
 
Unlinked my bank account as well. I actually had my current account as my paypal account, which after reading around the subject realise is a daft thing to do. Will set up a seperate account if I continue to use paypal in the future.

There still a possibility the guy is genuine and it's been damaged in shipping or by this shop he took it to. Either that or he's a very good liar, I have hope for humanity yet.

I always tell buyers what the packaging looked like when it left my care (with my TV i even sent a photo), so that the buyer can compare it when it reaches them. If it looks bashed, they should sign for it as "damaged" so they can claim against the insurance if necessary.

I suspect he's damaged it when trying to fit it and taken it to a local PC shop to try to sort it. It is worth reminding him that parts like that are meant for fitting by "qualified personnel"
 
Why does everyone refuse to look at things from all angles?
So in this case the OP tells us that he sent the item well packaged.
That it was working and there was no damage.
For that reason he is right and must automatically win.
If he tells PayPal all this and they refuse him the win then they are thieves, they are scum and you should never deal with them again.

What would be the point of assuming the OP is a liar?

Paypal cannot just automatically accept a person's testomony that the item sent was 100% perfect because I know of people who have received broken and damaged items.
In a "dispute" somebody is always going to lose - there is no way around this and at the end of the day it is the person who has the best evidence on their side that will win.
Sorry "Paypal hater bandwagen jumpers" - Paypal do not automatically side, they look at the evidence.
This is just like criminal law - sometimes the guilty are set free, sometimes the innocent are jailed.
Mistakes happen but thankfully, most of the time everything goes fine.

If I was the OP, and I knew for a fact that that package was sent fine, then i'd be expecting the transaction to go smoothly. After all, that is what the buyer was paying for.

The person with the best evidence does not always win. Paypal do not look at the evidence either. They just look at the route that is likely to be the cheapest for them. In the case of someone using a stolen credit card, Paypal know the buyer will have disappeared, and the CC company will want the money back. So they just take it off the seller.

And I think "most of the time everything goes fine" is dependant on what's being sold. With the likes of jewellery, I think the success rate is 90%+. But in terms of electrical goods, it's a lot lower than that.

Paypal do millions of transactions every week and for the "odd one" to go wrong is still impressive.
Heck the OP hasn't even had a dispute against him raised yet, yet alone been asked to provide any evidence yet some people on here are already taking the "anti Paypal stance".

Because you need to prepare yourself. Once PP have frozen the funds it's too late.

I have an EBay rating of 165 and all of those transactions have been via Paypal.
I've bought and I've sold.
The majority of these have gone through fine - the odd dispute has been raised against me and I've had the need to raise a couple myself.
On every single occasion except one I've won the dispute - that is as both a seller and buyer.
The only one I lost was during my early EBay days and when I look back my item description should have been better, so I did lose that one.

Did you end up "out of pocket" during said dispute?

You're just lucky. My girlfriend's Mum has a massive high feedback on EBay, but it's down mainly to what she's sold.

I personally know many EBay/Paypal users and I don't actually know personally anyone who has had "all of the hassle" some of you describe.
I think some people go looking for trouble, make stories up or are simply jumping on to the same bandwagon the "AOL and M$" people are on (the one where only around 10% of those people have actually used the service in question, yet all 100% of them **** it off).

Well I know plenty of people who have had various problems with Paypal. Some have shown me how they've followed the rules to the letter, but PP just tell them that they've found in favour of the buyer, who has mysteriously disappeared into thin air. Yet PP still won't release the money.

Some have done what i've suggested in the thread and those are the ones who have ended up at least coming out of it with they money they were entitled to. Some didn't, and like you, told me that PP would "sort it out". Well guess what? They just took the cheapest option to them and cut contact. If a company's allowed to go that they why isn't it's users?
 
Well, he's now replied 4 days after I sent the above email (I was kind of hoping he was trying it on and had given up) asking me to file a claim with royal mail, promising good feedback if I "agree to help me[him] claim here?". He's also taken the pictures requested (to be received) and sent the processor back to me. He has also stated that he purchased the exact same processor from someone else 4 days after mine and claims that was faulty too. So, we'll see... no dispute as yet though.
 
He has also stated that he purchased the exact same processor from someone else 4 days after mine and claims that was faulty too. So, we'll see... no dispute as yet though.

Wouldnt surprise me if he was putting them in the wrong way or didnt even have the correct socket motherboard
 
Go and unlink your bank account as well. Otherwise they'll just take the money anyway.

they can only freeze your paypal funds. They will use these funds and no others to refund if they see fit. They are not able to take the money from your bank account or charge to credit cards.

This is why pp is a joke. Their cover isn't worth anything, just causes people lots of wasted time trying to proove to some spotty nose jobsworth who doesn't know anything about the items who's right and wrong.
 
I often think I should sell more old kit when I upgrade, but threads like this just confirm my thought that it's often just not worth the time :(
 
I often think I should sell more old kit when I upgrade, but threads like this just confirm my thought that it's often just not worth the time :(

MM is a great place to sell all your old kit and there's a few other forums with active marketplaces as well. Prices will be a little lower than ebay for example, but generally without any hassle!
 
Would an idea of asking him to provide information in regard to the "cpu store" he took it too, speak with the owner or get a email/letter detailing what they said/found.

It'll be good to collaborate what he's saying and find out if he's telling porkies, hope you manage to sort things out.

Oh the Irony of you're user name best describes some people's experience's with ebay :D
 
Well, he's now replied 4 days after I sent the above email (I was kind of hoping he was trying it on and had given up) asking me to file a claim with royal mail, promising good feedback if I "agree to help me[him] claim here?". He's also taken the pictures requested (to be received) and sent the processor back to me. He has also stated that he purchased the exact same processor from someone else 4 days after mine and claims that was faulty too. So, we'll see... no dispute as yet though.

Just thought I'd update this for anyone who was interested.

I never received the processor back nor did I get any pictures through. I also haven't heard from him since I replied to him telling him how I would procede after receiving the processor back. It's now been 48 days since he paid for the processor, so I believe I'm now in the clear as far as a paypal dispute goes (he no longer can). :)
 
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