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You should beat her boyfriend up, kidnap the girl and hold her in your dungeon. You're not being alpha male enough. You're a disgrace to the male species.
 
Honestly let go, it will be hard, life is short and if she has said she dosen't want you then not much you can do. Best thing is not to let it rule your life, which in the end will turn you into some kind of mental stalker.

Relationships are funny things and tbh some girls aren't ready at the age of 19 to settle even though they might say they are :D
 
you sound pretty strange.

welcome to the forum, im sure you'll fit in well ;)

but yeah, get over her, i was in a similar situation, only she had a boyfriend when we met, she fell in love with me (and vice versa) then went back to him and was seeing me on the side, then dumped him again and said she needed some time to herself.

girls are only good for one thing :)
 
Move on and find someone else :)
If she wanted to be with you then she would have been, there's nothing you can do and trying to interfere with her life will only make it worse.
 
Move on, ditch the psycho tendencies and stop being a wet blanket. Women do not like being treated as a goddess, it bores them stupid. Just be yourself, have a decent relationship with putting her on a pedestal.
 
willhub said:
Every day you get a thread like this with the OP on about girls like this, they all seem like slags, you might aswel stay single..
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Or perhaps stop reading forum threads about relationships and assuming they're the norm, people tend to complain when there is a problem but don't post praise in equal measure so if you only read these threads and think that is the sum total of how women behave then you would end up with a very jaundiced view of the World.

KNiVES said:
You should beat her boyfriend up, kidnap the girl and hold her in your dungeon. You're not being alpha male enough. You're a disgrace to the male species.
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Stockholm Syndrome is no laughing matter, we don't want any old Tom, Dick or Harry assuming that they can successfully harness it, we need people who'll do it right rather than a half-hearted attempt.

//edit and in an attempt to be vaguely helpful, try showing a bit of respect for yourself and her i.e. you may not like her decision but you can at least show you respect it.
 
Jez said:
You sound like a mental case and i think that you should let it go.
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Absolutely. You're out of line starting anything. Who do you think you are? You think you own her? It's not your business to question everything she does any sooner than she owes you an explanation, and if she does you're daft if you think you're going to get the truth at this point.

Move on and ffs calm down before you irritate the wrong person.
 
Fido McNasty said:
Absolutely. You're out of line starting anything. Who do you think you are? You think you own her? It's not your business to question everything she does any sooner than she owes you an explanation, and if she does you're daft if you think you're going to get the truth at this point.

Move on and ffs calm down before you irritate the wrong person.
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Pulling them over in a car was the icing on the cake for me.
 
Hmm ok I'll try and be helpful.

You need to stop being a ****. Your childish actions are not going to help in any way.

Ive been there too. I was with Dawn from 16 to 19... we had lived together for about a year. Then one day she turned round and said she needed her space etc etc. We both moved back in with our rents.

It was so so hard. She was going out at least 3 or 4 times a week getting slaughtered etc. Then I found out she'd slept with someone. Felt like my world was over, even though we werent together it felt like she had betrayed me.

What you need to do is to start enjoying yourself again. Buy yourself some nice clothes, always look good. Be there when/if she needs you, but keep your distance. Dont get jealous no matter how hard it is.

Let her know you still have feelings for her but understand that she needs to breathe.

If its meant to be then its meant to be. After a 6 month break, me and Dawn got back together. We're now happily married with 2 lovely children.

Think about it. By doing what your doing, you are just pushing her further away.
 
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