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ok, well i feel like a spanner righting this, but ocuk never fails to give out the right advice..

long story short - girl ive known for years, liked her a bit before, she used to like me, she has boyfriend, she does like me i think but obviously she has boyfriend who she says she loves, should i tell her?

ive made me mind up i will tell her soon but shes going uni, should i just leave it?
 
Get over it. It'd be quite selfish to potentially ruin someone's happiness just to satisfy your need to tell them. If you really cared about her you'd let her be happy and let it go.
 
Girls appear to like you more than they really do, even ones with bfs. This is either you reading too much into your relationship with her or her being really flirty. You will only hurt yourself if you pursue it, see the happiness in there relationship and leave it be... you'll feel better for it.

Also imagine if you had a gf and someone made things complicated by telling her that they like her...
 
TBH, it all comes down to the fact she is probably stringing you along in order to feel more secure.

Everyone does it - when you hear that two girls like you at the same time you start thinking your God's gift and it feels great.
 
salami1212 said:
ok, well i feel like a spanner righting this, but ocuk never fails to give out the right advice..

long story short - girl ive known for years, liked her a bit before, she used to like me, she has boyfriend, she does like me i think but obviously she has boyfriend who she says she loves, should i tell her?

ive made me mind up i will tell her soon but shes going uni, should i just leave it?
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:confused: Don't be a complete **** she has a boyfriend! Leave it well alone.
 
Unless you really have something close don't read too much into it... a lot of women don't seem to think twice about stringing guys along prolly something along the reason as put above about feeling secure and having something to fall back on...
 
just tell her. what have you got to lose ?

if her boyfriends bigger than you then even losing some teeth will be covered by the wonderful nhs
 
trust me, this ass is worth thinking about..

im not a blubbering mess or anything lol, i just dont usually think about 1 girl this much

and na im not worried about the boyfriend, but we really do get along great, guarantee if she was single shed be on it..
 
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