The effects of drinking too much at dinner parties..!!
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Apologize mate. Lots. Hopefully she'll understand that you made a mistake, as long as it is a one off. Everyone makes mistakes, even if some on here can't understand this.
If she doesn't understand, move on...
He already has. Why should it be a one off? She wouldn't change her ways for him, so why he for her? Its not like he does it every day.
You are right in that he should move on.
LMFAO. You utter genius. New personal hero.
Are her ways patently offensive? That's what he did was, it has obviously hurt her a fair deal as, from the sounds of it, she's not too happy about heir weight despite losing a lot.
Well had a text message from aforementioned gf.... so still talking to me. If only to say 'gone swimming'.
That will be code for 'going swimming on my own, I'll see ya later when I’ve either got bored or need some loving' type of message... Know her too well. Moody bugger..
She also sends the ‘gone swimming’ or ‘taking the dogs’ type of texts or ‘going out with mates’ etc to let me know that what she really wants is for me to take her but she isn’t talking to me or wants me to take her but I’m too busy, we’ve been here before…. It’s the usual..
In about a week, one of us will get bored and cave in, and drive over to see each other and that’ll be it, nothing more will be said…. Like I said, I wasn’t worried, I’m used to this now.
She’ll get over it, fact she sent a txt is telling me that she already pretty much over it, we normally go swimming Monday or Wednesday eve, hence the ‘gone swimming’… doesn’t take a genius to work out what that meant…!!
That will be code for 'going swimming on my own, I'll see ya later when I’ve either got bored or need some loving' type of message... Know her too well. Moody bugger..
She also sends the ‘gone swimming’ or ‘taking the dogs’ type of texts or ‘going out with mates’ etc to let me know that what she really wants is for me to take her but she isn’t talking to me or wants me to take her but I’m too busy, we’ve been here before…. It’s the usual..
In about a week, one of us will get bored and cave in, and drive over to see each other and that’ll be it, nothing more will be said…. Like I said, I wasn’t worried, I’m used to this now.
She’ll get over it, fact she sent a txt is telling me that she already pretty much over it, we normally go swimming Monday or Wednesday eve, hence the ‘gone swimming’… doesn’t take a genius to work out what that meant…!!
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No you don't. Next time you have a dinner party you just dont invite the mrs. Or go to someone elses dinner party instead
Well done. Sound like you had a good night, screw her.
She's got a big butt and you did not lie! all your mates can't deny when your bird walks in with an ity bity waist and a big round thing in their face!
Dumped by a fatty
Well no not really... Although, still. Nah she does need to grow up, as for fatty... If you read the thread you'd read that she is actually well on a diet and has lost a heck of a lot of body mass already...
Going from size 20 - 14 in less then a year is quite good if you ask me..... Still quite chubby, but nothing compared to a 20 + fatty.... so, if anything dumped by a chubby curvy lass...
Anyhow, not dumped she's doing her normal stunt.. I had this with the weight loss, now its with spending time and comments made whilst drunk and with friends having fun.
Despite all of this, she does have some rather good qualities. she is very caring, too caring at times and has a heart of gold. If I called her now, and was in need of something she'd drop everything to come and help....
And to be honest, she’s very pretty despite putting weight on (that’s another story), and now losing that anyhow.... so, size 14, pretty curvy lass.... I know why I put up with her; anyhow she has to put up with me... lol
Oh and before I get slaughtered, I don’t in anyway think that a size 14 girl is LARGE..!! Size 14 is actually pretty normal and about average for a 32 year old girl….. she was about 12 verging on 14 when I met her, so my comment about chubby is in no way calling chubby girls fat… gotta be careful what you say on here, sometimes it doesn’t read too well to others..
She's got a big butt and you did not lie! all your mates can't deny when your bird walks in with an ity bity waist and a big round thing in their face!
I think what is worse... Is that my mates missues is actually larger then mine.... I have no idea why I said it, but still..... I think it might have been in past tense..
No... its a long story. Medication and a few other issues meant she gained weight a little too quickly, then this year after much help we finally managed to get her back on the level and she's been losing weight ever since...
It wasn't a good time, but you live and learn. i'm no chubby chaser, and I'm no feeder..
Sounds like a bit of a mentalist relationship to be honest. Do you really see yourself spending the rest of your life with her?
Not being funny but if she ballaches you now over trivial drama bull**** like this, what happens if you marry her? Up **** creek without a paddle springs to mind.
Honestly, the whole not speaking to you and holding a grudge for a week or two until YOU CAVE (from the sounds of this thread), is a bit childish. You have done a lot for her in the past year or so and because of a few stupid comments when drunk your getting your balls busted?
F that tbh...
Not being funny but if she ballaches you now over trivial drama bull**** like this, what happens if you marry her? Up **** creek without a paddle springs to mind.
Honestly, the whole not speaking to you and holding a grudge for a week or two until YOU CAVE (from the sounds of this thread), is a bit childish. You have done a lot for her in the past year or so and because of a few stupid comments when drunk your getting your balls busted?
F that tbh...
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I think that by 35 you should know how to a) not drink so much you get completely plastered and forget yourself, b) have a girlfriend who gives a crap enough to be hanging out with you at said time and who won't throw your good time back in your face just because she wasn't with you.
Epic fail on both sides tbh and it seems like you're not getting on too well / frankly annoy each other.
Good luck
Epic fail on both sides tbh and it seems like you're not getting on too well / frankly annoy each other.
Good luck
Nah this has gone fine, not dumped far from it. Even got an apology and were well cool now. Think one of her friends told her to cool her heels a little and realise that despite everything, when men get drinking you need to expect anything..
To be honest, I felt the whole thing as rather immature. Still used to this now, doesn’t make it right….
Did buy her a nice new silk bed slip (can’t remember the name of these girlie nightwear thingies), as a gift. Sadly I did buy the wrong size… But she saw the funny side and gave her the receipt and she’ll nip off and get the next size down…
Nothing to worry about, she was being silly. Sadly her silliness cost me a bunch of flowers and a silky nightwear garment… Women eh?
To be honest, I felt the whole thing as rather immature. Still used to this now, doesn’t make it right….
Did buy her a nice new silk bed slip (can’t remember the name of these girlie nightwear thingies), as a gift. Sadly I did buy the wrong size… But she saw the funny side and gave her the receipt and she’ll nip off and get the next size down…
Nothing to worry about, she was being silly. Sadly her silliness cost me a bunch of flowers and a silky nightwear garment… Women eh?