Ok, and whilst your experiences burn images into your memory and shape your opinions, it's worth keeping in mind the likelihood of them happening, especially with a biker who is switched on and aware. Your comment about pushbikes sums it up. I cycle every day in a city where there are thousands of cyclists, and yet I've never seen anyone go under a skip lorry. I did have the misfortune recently to see the aftermath of a car cut up a cyclist at a crossroads, but I would bet that the cyclist whose bike was 'written off' will get back cycling soon.
Knowing you're a vunerable road user should make you more aware of the situations you might find yourself in, but should not in itself be a reason to give up that mode of transport. I've seen some horrific videos of motorcyclists getting injured and worse, but that wouldn't put me off biking. Don't distort probabilities with anecdotes. Otherwise you could trawl the internet for horror stories of any topic you choose and end up doing nothing. I am fully aware that motorcylists represent a disproportionate number of accidents, and when they are involved in accidents they are disproportionally worse off, but not everyone rides the same, just like not every 17 old crashes their car. I wouldn't recommend a young male driver holds off on driving because they're statistically likely to crash, I'd tell them to take care.
I think you trivialise the potential danger and consequences.
It isnt just that you could have an accident, it isnt just that you could be injured, its that I believe you have a greater chance of dying in an accident if on a bike that in any other form of road transport.
A death in these circumstances is devastating to the families involved. If you are not yet married your parents, brothers and sisters will bear the brunt. They will not understand why you chose to ride a bike knowing the risks, they will not understand why you threw your one and only life away.
If you are married you risk destroying the family unit you have created. Children growing up without a father, a wife without a partner, all your group dreams and aspirations crushed due to the selfish decision to place riding a bike ahead of your family commitments.
Am I going too far in posting this? I dont think so. My position is as valid as any other posted here and yes, I do have personal experience to draw upon.
I rode a bike when I was younger. My wife also rode bikes when she was younger. She was knocked off hers when a car crossing over an A road hit the side of the bike she was pillion on whilst it was doing 70mph. She has lasting injuries from that, indeed she was very lucky to keep her leg and to be able to walk. She went back to riding bikes for a time afterwards, we rode together after we got married for a few years before we both gave it up. Once we had children it was time to put those things behind us.
My brother also had children, he took up biking later in life. He knew the risks but enjoyed the ride too much to want to give it up. He died in his first bike accident leaving a wife and 3 children, one born after he died. Nothing justifies the risk he chose to take bearing in mind his responsibilities, nothing.
When you weigh up the risks of biking, factor in the result on other people of taking that risk. Life is short and some things just arent worth the risk in my opinion. In todays traffic and weather conditions, biking is one of them.