dating at work and stuff

She's likely to think you're too young unless you're very mature for your age.

That is what I am afraid of : ).

However, you have nothing to lose - worse comes to the worse you'll just have a bit of embarassement for a bit and then just get back to your life.

Well, if I try it and it ends up not happening, there probably will be some weird tension..ehm.

No harm in trying, you never know she might have a craving for young men. ;)

I can hope : ).

Secret mobile phone spyshots or it didn't happen.

haha I wish, but my lame phone camera would make her look horrible anyway : ). Plus she is ill today and probably for the rest of the week (which makes me want to take a vacation for the rest of the week too, since it means I won't see her at work anyway : ))

Definately give it a go.
Though if it all goes horribly wrong it could get very messy very quickly.

I know dread going to work due to seeing a girl at work and it all going wrong.

Proceed with caution.

yeah, it is dangerous teritory, especially since I love this job and really do not want to mess that up.

Btw for people disssapointed in Asda fiasco - don't get your hopes up here, I am not promising anything ! :)
 
look at the age difference.... get REAL.

Have you even spoken to her or have you just been stalking her everywhere...

Yeah I am aware of age difference and trust me, I wish she was younger : ).
But she really looks 28 maximum, that's what we all guessed her when she started here.

I spoke to her normally, no problems, she is pleasant..but work related only so far : ).No stalking involved :P
 
Actual age difference = irrelevant

Mental age = everything

Depending on the size of your company, I wouldn't both as if it doesnt work out for any reason, it doesnt take much for people to start being immature and cause an issue at work which won't be very fun.

/edit she sits in front of you? Unless your 100% sure she would say yes or be "flattered" then I wouldn't both, not worth the risk unless you couldnt care less about your job.
 
I met my wife at work about 5 years ago. We were friends for a couple of years, then lived together, finally getting married in November last year.

We have both since left the company though.

It can be fraught with difficulty (I was reporting to her on a project!), but it can also work very well :)
 
Don't be so crude. I'm sure she's interested in more than the size of his "company"

PS. I've just realised I am nowhere near mature enough to go out with a 34 year old woman


:D

I doubt I am either.

I met my wife at work about 5 years ago. We were friends for a couple of years, then lived together, finally getting married in November last year.

We have both since left the company though.

It can be fraught with difficulty (I was reporting to her on a project!), but it can also work very well :)

Congratulations ! ;)
 
She will say you are too young for her. And she'd be right.

expect to be knocked back, if not then bonus!

she prob wont be interested in you at that age

Nah, she is too old for you, I'll have her instead ;) lol

look at the age difference.... get REAL.

Have you even spoken to her or have you just been stalking her everywhere...

None of you know what you're talking about at all, you sound like your know for a fact that no male at 22 has dated a 30+ year old women.

Stupid.
 
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