oh noes not another girl thread

HypnoToad · 19 Mar 2010 at 11:27

ScarySquirrel said:
I went for a girl I don't normally go for and it didn't work out. She was a man.

well they say you should try anything once!

oneale90 said:
Just don't chicken out! Makesure you go for it! Best of luck mate

im not chickening out, i was hoping to ask her today in person, but im sat here in work while shes got the day off. i dont have her phone number either so i cant phone or text but i am friends with her on facebook.

im tempted to ask her over facebook but this seems wrong to me, i am a few years older than her though, so maybe its considered normal these days? should i message her today on fb, or ask her out 'properly' in person next week?

wildman · 19 Mar 2010 at 11:49

HypnoToad said:
well they say you should try anything once!

im not chickening out, i was hoping to ask her today in person, but im sat here in work while shes got the day off. i dont have her phone number either so i cant phone or text but i am friends with her on facebook. im tempted to ask her over facebook but this seems wrong to me, i am a few years older than her though, so maybe its considered normal these days? should i message her today on fb, or ask her out 'properly' in person next week?

If you do the part highlighted you will have epic fail of double face palm proportions.

Do the later and wiat till she is back. Askign someone out over facebook is akin to getting your mate in junior scholl to tell a girl you fancy her

MikeHunt79 · 19 Mar 2010 at 13:00

HypnoToad said:
should i message her today on fb, or ask her out 'properly' in person next week?

Tough one, I'd be tempted to just wait until next week, much better than writing something rude on her wall.

Le_Petit_Lapin · 19 Mar 2010 at 13:32

Did anyone else here ever go out with someone, on a few dates, kissed them and shagged them, so you know, you felt a bit of an "item" but yet a week later you bump hinto her with her new boyfriend, and she can't understand the problem, she didn't think you were together because you never asked specifically "will you go out with me?".

cooljimy84 · 19 Mar 2010 at 15:08

Not really, but my current woman made me say "do u wanna be my girl friend" i can understand kinda.... but at the same time, "what do u think we have been doing all this time if we're not bf gf ?!?!?"

Woman...

Richie · 19 Mar 2010 at 15:16

wildman said:
Do the later and wiat till she is back. Askign someone out over facebook is akin to getting your mate in junior scholl to tell a girl you fancy her

Gah, more American pish...

There was a time when it was simply "Primary" and "Secondary" or "High" School which things like "Primary 5" or "3rd year" went hand in hand with.... None of this American crap of "Junior" school or even "year 10" or, even worse, chuffing PROMS !!! FFS.

For the record, I am not having a go at Wildman himself, it just so happens he used the terminology.

mac1st3 · 19 Mar 2010 at 15:23

Le_Petit_Lapin said:
Did anyone else here ever go out with someone, on a few dates, kissed them and shagged them, so you know, you felt a bit of an "item" but yet a week later you bump hinto her with her new boyfriend, and she can't understand the problem, she didn't think you were together because you never asked specifically "will you go out with me?".

cooljimy84 said:
Not really, but my current woman made me say "do u wanna be my girl friend" i can understand kinda.... but at the same time, "what do u think we have been doing all this time if we're not bf gf ?!?!?"

Woman...

yea, the whole "let's make it official" thing is a little odd, these days you do it by facebook >.<

but I guess if you never discuss it, and it's only been a few weeks, it's open for interpretation

cooljimy84 · 19 Mar 2010 at 20:19

mac1st3 said:
yea, the whole "let's make it official" thing is a little odd, these days you do it by facebook >.<

but I guess if you never discuss it, and it's only been a few weeks, it's open for interpretation

Yer i can understand her side, but we were just kinda hanging out together at the time, still haden't made my mind up... tho i would like to know where i stand... may be she had another offer

[TW]Fox · 19 Mar 2010 at 20:21

Richie said:
Gah, more American pish...

There was a time when it was simply "Primary" and "Secondary" or "High" School which things like "Primary 5" or "3rd year" went hand in hand with.... None of this American crap of "Junior" school or even "year 10" or, even worse, chuffing PROMS !!! FFS.

I went to a Junior school in the 90's, I dont think its an American term at all. If anything its High School thats the American term :confused:

kylew · 20 Mar 2010 at 10:16

[TW]Fox;16191567 said:
I went to a Junior school in the 90's, I dont think its an American term at all. If anything its High School thats the American term

High school is the American way.

Junior and Senior school is the "British" way.

Minxy · 20 Mar 2010 at 10:26

She will appreciate it more if you ask her in person. Facebook is not personal enough.

Hxc · 20 Mar 2010 at 11:41

I have absolutely no common theme in the opposite sex. I don't really understand it. A lot of them are "arty" though.

wozza2k · 23 Mar 2010 at 21:24

Do you just want to bang her? Or are you actually seeking a decent relationship with her?

.Lethal · 23 Mar 2010 at 22:30

wozza2k said:
Do you just want to bang her? Or are you actually seeking a decent relationship with her?

tbh I think thats all he really wants but he doesn't realise it himself yet.

Office relationships? :rolleyes:

Quick fling with the attractive office girl? :cool:

box · 23 Mar 2010 at 22:40

I'm confused... you're 17 yet this girl is 'a few' years younger than you (14? 15?). Where is it that you both work exactly?!

wozza2k said:
Do you just want to bang her?

Would this even be legal?

wozza2k · 24 Mar 2010 at 14:00

Just tell her you want to put your battered sausage in her bacteria hole. Be a man about it, she'll love that dirty talk....

RopAyy · 24 Mar 2010 at 15:49

As stated as long as the girl you go to bed with at night is the same as the one you wake up with in the morning it cant be that bad.
Now if her face is on the pillow when you wake up or worse yet after some handy mouth work on her behalf and the obvious result that follows causes her face to melt id suggest leaving it there.
/badtaste

Duff-Man · 24 Mar 2010 at 17:25

Richie said:
Gah, more American pish...

There was a time when it was simply "Primary" and "Secondary" or "High" School which things like "Primary 5" or "3rd year" went hand in hand with.... None of this American crap of "Junior" school or even "year 10" or, even worse, chuffing PROMS !!! FFS.

I think you've got that the wrong way round mate. In the UK we have:

* Infant school ("reception", and years 1 and 2)
* Junior school (years 3 to 6)
* Secondary school (years 7 to 11)
* Sixth form (optional - years 12 and 13).

Infant and junior school are often referred to collectively as "primary school"

In the US, the equivalent is:

* Elementary school ("kindergarden" and grade 1 to 5)
* Junior high (grades 6 to 8)
* High school (grades 9 to 12)

It has been this way since at least the early 1980s. Anyway, junior school is a British and not American description.