Family get together at the weekend, also invited a few friends. Mate of mine who was introduced to me 10 years ago by a lass I worked with as I was renting a room from her was with is all. At the time, I was new in town, living in a room let, why not.. anyhow past history moving on.
He’s been a really solid friend through the years. The girl BTW is a total screw up. She’s thrown away her life in so many ways, and three years ago my mate, to which we all don’t know why, got together with her, and get her pregnant.
Now they both live together, and I’ve never been totally agreeable to how she treats him, but its none of my business and we’ve basically left him to it. He’s always had a soft spot for her.. 10 years ago when I first met her at work, she was with a chap who seemed ok, she was quite fit looking however it soon became apparent that my at the time new friend was sweet on her.
She split with her boyfriend and made advances on me, this was 7 years ago now. I mistook her advancements and tried to kiss her, to which she rejected and I felt a bit of a, well you know…
Since then I’ve never trusted her, but she’s always been around due to me still being friends with the same friend she introduced to me. I’ve always respected him, he’s a solid chap, and has always helped me when needed, and always been there for me..
Since those two got together, its never gone well between me and him since. Not to say, she’s really let herself go. She is massively overweight, scraggy looking hair and is lazy and doesn’t even work, every job she’s got she’s been fired or let go before her inductions are over.
Anyhow, across the table on Saturday evening, she tells me, in front of everyone, and even my fiancé, and in front of my mate, her boyfriend whom has had a child together with that she’d made a mistake in life and wish my mum who was sat at the same table as us, that she wishes my own mum was to be her future mother in law, and that my fiancé doesn’t get on with my mum and its not fair, as I’m better looking then her boyfriend and can offer her more. Erm… What the hell. Just what do you say to that? Especially as it was in front of all my family, and my fiancé. Fiancé is hopping mad, and quite rightfully so.
Safe to say, questions where asked. I’ve already explained the past events to my mum and my fiancé, I wouldn’t have been so bad if she was drunk or something…. I have no idea how I get myself into these situations.
Basically, I’ve decided best for me cut all ties to this so call past mate as she really is poison, and lose a solid friend in the process. What would you do? I know in the future my mate is going to get hurt, but I can’t risk my own life due to some spiteful tongue cow..
He’s been a really solid friend through the years. The girl BTW is a total screw up. She’s thrown away her life in so many ways, and three years ago my mate, to which we all don’t know why, got together with her, and get her pregnant.
Now they both live together, and I’ve never been totally agreeable to how she treats him, but its none of my business and we’ve basically left him to it. He’s always had a soft spot for her.. 10 years ago when I first met her at work, she was with a chap who seemed ok, she was quite fit looking however it soon became apparent that my at the time new friend was sweet on her.
She split with her boyfriend and made advances on me, this was 7 years ago now. I mistook her advancements and tried to kiss her, to which she rejected and I felt a bit of a, well you know…
Since then I’ve never trusted her, but she’s always been around due to me still being friends with the same friend she introduced to me. I’ve always respected him, he’s a solid chap, and has always helped me when needed, and always been there for me..
Since those two got together, its never gone well between me and him since. Not to say, she’s really let herself go. She is massively overweight, scraggy looking hair and is lazy and doesn’t even work, every job she’s got she’s been fired or let go before her inductions are over.
Anyhow, across the table on Saturday evening, she tells me, in front of everyone, and even my fiancé, and in front of my mate, her boyfriend whom has had a child together with that she’d made a mistake in life and wish my mum who was sat at the same table as us, that she wishes my own mum was to be her future mother in law, and that my fiancé doesn’t get on with my mum and its not fair, as I’m better looking then her boyfriend and can offer her more. Erm… What the hell. Just what do you say to that? Especially as it was in front of all my family, and my fiancé. Fiancé is hopping mad, and quite rightfully so.
Safe to say, questions where asked. I’ve already explained the past events to my mum and my fiancé, I wouldn’t have been so bad if she was drunk or something…. I have no idea how I get myself into these situations.
Basically, I’ve decided best for me cut all ties to this so call past mate as she really is poison, and lose a solid friend in the process. What would you do? I know in the future my mate is going to get hurt, but I can’t risk my own life due to some spiteful tongue cow..
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