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At this stage a DNA test could confirm the child is his or not, but I'm sure he already loves the kid. If for any reason, do it so you won't have to pay child support if it isn't, or do it so you have legal rights to the child if it it.

If you read your own post, it's pretty clear what you should do isn't it? You're just venting on this forums for support. You know what you have to do, and it's not the Raol Moat method.
 
Windle said:
I personally wouldn't bother trying to get "Even", you've been a bit daft letting her mess you around like you have but love's a right bugger.

With a court case/custody hearing coming up, you don't want to give her any ammunition in the case. Telling her fella stuff to try and break them up isn't something you'd really want brought up in a custody hearing as it doesn't paint you in a good light.

Try and be whiter than white, keep notes of everything she says/does in relation to letting you see your son. Make rational notes about the issues you've had in seeing your son, try and not let personal feelings that you obviously have become involved. Yes your bitter, but if your serious about seeing your son and getting a favorable custody hearing you need to focus on that and forget about this woman.
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This tbh....listen to this guy as he speaks a lot of sense OP....i was about to post the same thing but Windle saved me the bother:p
 
Didn't read it all but it sounds like you're being walked all over. Why do you not want a DNA test to confirm? You have a slight chance of getting rid of this woman and you're not willing to even give it a chance?
 
You need to take it to court after a DNA test and go for joint custordy... then you should be entitled to have him overnight at your house...

Don't walk away from your son... don't let her win... keep fighting for him
 
sigma said:
Didn't read it all but it sounds like you're being walked all over. Why do you not want a DNA test to confirm? You have a slight chance of getting rid of this woman and you're not willing to even give it a chance?
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Because its £400 and I do beleive hes mine. If he wasnt I dont think I could handle to pain.

Im named on the birth cirtificate so therefore have PR. She wont even let me take him away for a weekend with my mum and dad yet she can swan off to egypt with her new fella a week after they meet with him
 
you do really get the DNA for your piece of mind, dont want to sound horrible but hopefully the child is not yours so you can start new life properly.

if the child is yours then you must get the legal people involved.

she does really sounds like a ****. you never know she could've slept 10 men you didnt know about
 
Stopped reading half way through because there is no time to waste in saying:


You're a tool.


You run to her when she calls, despite however many times she kicks you to the curb and practically spits on you.

Plus, what's all this rubbish about 'I'm not allowed to have my son etc.' - put your foot down and grow a pair. She doesn't get to dictate your relationship with him. Your his father for christ sake, act like a man.
 
It's like Jeremy Kyle around here these days.

Get a grip, ditch the mare, fight for access to your son, get on with your life.

Is that what you wanted to hear?

Stop being her lapdog you massive pansy.
 
Deific said:
Stopped reading half way through because there is no time to waste in saying:


You're a tool.


You run to her when she calls, despite however many times she kicks you to the curb and practically spits on you.

Plus, what's all this rubbish about 'I'm not allowed to have my son etc.' - put your foot down and grow a pair. She doesn't get to dictate your relationship with him. Your his father for christ sake, act like a man.
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+1. Bloody grow up and start exerting some control. You are legally entitled to see your son, so sort it out
 
Damn that's harsh, I feel for you mate.

I would tell the guy she's with and hope it ****s up there relationship and do as others said and get a dna test then try to win custody of your son.
 
Jonnybmac said:
Because its £400 and I do beleive hes mine. If he wasnt I dont think I could handle to pain.

Im named on the birth cirtificate so therefore have PR. She wont even let me take him away for a weekend with my mum and dad yet she can swan off to egypt with her new fella a week after they meet with him
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£400? Sounds a lot but then again, anything to help the situation would be a good thing, no?

If she is doing all this then make sure you have proof documented for the court case. You do need to grow a pair and start laying down the law a bit though, as above, ignoring her a bit is a good start.
 
Laney88 said:
I would tell the guy she's with and hope it ****s up there relationship and do as others said and get a dna test then try to win custody of your son.
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No point really......as she will go crawling back to him, and he will take her back after being told a load of drivvle about how wrong she was and how much she really does love him....then someone else will turn up and off she'll go again leaving the op back at square one...or am I just being a miserable cynic :)
 
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