What the hell should I do???

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Look iM not gonna get into my life and what I think is wrong and right, but needless to say I do not see a problem with having friends that IM attracted to, becasue I know I wouldnt make a move if IM with some (past sins aside)

So YES im asking the question because I dont see why I should stop talking to people that I like to just chat **** to.
 
Pandorasghost said:
Look iM not gonna get into my life and what I think is wrong and right, but needless to say I do not see a problem with having friends that IM attracted to, becasue I know I wouldnt make a move if IM with some (past sins aside)

So YES im asking the question because I dont see why I should stop talking to people that I like to just chat **** to.
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Chatting to friends is ok, but you said you were posting dirty pics to them, slight difference there dude.

stop thinking with your elvis and use your brain.
 
Because you lie about it.

Your relationship is screwed up. Deal with and do both of you a favour and end it now, because this will end eventually one way or another.
 
Pandorasghost said:
Look iM not gonna get into my life and what I think is wrong and right, but needless to say I do not see a problem with having friends that IM attracted to, becasue I know I wouldnt make a move if IM with some (past sins aside)

So YES im asking the question because I dont see why I should stop talking to people that I like to just chat **** to.
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Theres obviously no reason why a person cant be friends with someone they are attracted to, I am frankly astounded that at the age of 24 you even need to ask if its true that they cant. If you were 16 then I could understand asking such a question but at 24 you have more than enough maturity and experience of life to know that its possible to be friends with a person you are attracted to without having to ask a bunch of internet forum nerds if such a thing is possible.
 
Hmm, sorry to judge but it does sound like your relationship is more complex than most.

I'd say it's not a problem if you have friends you think are good looking. If you are attracted to them then it's different, imo.

I have female friends, a fair few of them are good looking girls, no big deal. If I were attracted to any of them instead I would be asking questions about my current relationship and where I wanted it to go considering I had feelings for other women.
 
To be fair she sounds like a hound, why are you even still bothering?

Get some morals and balls, then sack her off. Freshen-up man!
 
Burnsy2023 said:
And the OP isn't at fault either?
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Tricky, I think he should have avoided the "getting revenge", so yes he's slightly at fault too. But, in his terms of his line of thinking and hers, things were at an even point.

She did what she did, he did what he did.
Except now, he's not allowed contact with females it seems, from what we are lead to believe and from his side of the story, but I know from experience this can happen.

Like I've said previously, I've known a girl for over 12 years online that was, way back when, a penpal who got in contact with me during a relationship to see what's up and my current GF "found out". To me it was a non-issue, to her it was some end of the world decision and started throwing around ultimatums. Just to note I've never met said penpal but my GF at the time went ballistic.

All I can do to people who are in a relationship with similar people is, simply, tell them to get the hell out of there, chances are people like this rarely if ever change. But, if they can try and work it out but don't let them pull that insanity on you too many times, it's not healthy :(
 
dave1983 said:
Flirty Messages, and suggestions in what context something like "i like to smash your pasty"
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No No I would say more like when can I have that lapdance you promised me! (Knowing full well that if offered I would find an excuse not to go over to her place.) I was feeling left out by the mrs and needed some female attention and also wanted to get back at her for lying to me about not sending photos with her face included.

IM not gonna defend her actions with regard to the photos but think on this if you will. what would you do to make sure your children had food in them?
SHe always told me that she only did it for the money becasue she needed it, "I didnt do it because I enjoyed it" I was told.
 
Pandorasghost said:
No No I would say more like when can I have that lapdance you promised me! (Knowing full well that if offered I would find an excuse not to go over to her place.) I was feeling left out by the mrs and needed some female attention and also wanted to get back at her for lying to me about not sending photos with her face included.

IM not gonna defend her actions with regard to the photos but think on this if you will. what would you do to make sure your children had food in them?
SHe always told me that she only did it for the money becasue she needed it, "I didnt do it because I enjoyed it" I was told.
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you two really need to sit down together and discuss whether you 2 want this relationship, im saying this from experience.

i was like you last year wanted female attention ect.. and trust me all women want is for you to listen and talk to them, i made mistakes just anyone else has but you learn from it, but you need to show her that it has to stop Now. if it doesn't show her the door.
 
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