Have a bad feeling, G/F might be cheating.

Tim said:
What's the point contuining in the relationship with the obvious lack of trust?
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Well if he asks her, guarantee relationship will end. She'll be like "YOU CAN'T TELL ME HOW TO DRESS BLAH BLAH."

Might aswell catch her in the act if she is up to something. It's a long shot but maybe it'll help him.
 
why bother doing the talking follow her one night shes dressed like a slapper and if she tries anything with someone else just go up say your stuffs on the door you tramp and tell the other guy to have fun with ho.

Beats all this talk to her nonsense she will just deny it they always do.
 
If you are a bit of a scumbag and you want conclusive proof/peace of mind without tipping her off, then go through her phone.

However, if its got to the point where you need to do this, the relationship is usually dead in the water.
 
I agree with those that have said you should sit her down and talk about it. Though perhaps soften the blow first, don't just jump in and say "are you cheating?" explain how you feel she has become distant etc and then perhaps say "is there someone else?"

If she says nothing is happening but gets extremely defensive then personally to me that would say something isn't right.
If my boyfriend came to me and said he felt I was becoming distant etc then I wouldn't get defensive, I would feel bad for making him feel that way.

If you followed her and it was all innocent but she found out you had, that wouldn't go down well. And again if it was actually all innocent but you perhaps saw her talking to another guy with your current suspicions you may then put 2 and 2 together and make 5.

The way she is dressing doesn't necessarily mean she is doing it to impress other guys. Girls can be very bitchy. If you feel you look good then you feel more confident. It could just be her way of feeling good in front of her friends.

I hope it all works out to be nothing :)
 
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Tim said:
What's the difference?
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I just think it will be easier for him to explain his reasons for asking first, rather than instantly coming out with "I think you're cheating"

He might get his answer after saying he feels she's become distant, without even mentioning his suspicions.
 
I think you'd still get the same reaction no matter how you phrase it.

It sucks you don't trust your GF though, people dress to feel good about themselves, not just to impress.
 
If it helps you can post pics, and then we can let you know whether any of us are sleeping with her?

(Or, more seriously the answer is in the first reply)
 
For god's sake - talk to her! If you don't...

1. You'll just go insane from worrying/suspicion/jealousy until you crack.

then/or

2. One day soon she'll just announce she's moving on and you'll be a wreck.
 
Classic example of woman looking for another bloke.

Do the spy on her.

If you talk to her she WILL get defensive. seen it all before.

always the same outcome, she is looking for an escape route.
 
So her being dolled up similar to all her friends on a night out makes you worried shes cheating...?

If you have a particular problem with the way she dresses, either A. Dump her, B. Tell her and recieve a mouthful/get dumped. It is her choice what to wear after all.
 
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Women will cheat if you're not good looking enough for them.
Men will cheat if you're not good looking enough for them.

Pick someone on your level, problem solved.
 
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