Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.

geeklight said:
Anyone that is telling you to humiliate her, or get revenge on her, is just childish and petty. Trust me, I handled it in probably the worst way I could've and what it taught me is if you walk away without doing anything to hurt her, it will only come back to bite her on the ass, not you- what goes around, comes around. If you want to handle this situation like a real, adult man, you'll walk away from it rather than doing anything stupid, and you really will be better off in the long run.

By doing anything like humiliating her, posting on her fb wall, posting nudie pics, saying anything nasty, you'll probably feel better in the short term, but when you look back on this in a couple of years, you'll wish you handled it with more dignity, so if you want to feel good about yourself in the long run, just leave her and move on.

Oh, and don't let it affect your future relationships or make you bitter about women in general- I know it'll be hard to trust anyone after this, especially when you feel yourself starting to care about another woman and getting close to her, but I've just messed up an amazing relationship by letting my residual trust issues into it- trust me, don't do it!!
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Probably true.

I wonder if he any photos of her?;)
 
Contrary to what i said earlier if you do want to be horrible wait for her to give a sign that shes going to tell you and say:

her: 'look i've got to tell you something'
You: so have i actually..
her: you first
you: i've got aids

:D
 
Nitrojan said:
Because, I logged on her facebook and read those messages.. she doesn't know that I know her password.
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Nitrojan said:
I made her show me her texts that night and there were none she had sent to him.
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She's lying to you about this guy and you don't trust her anymore. Doesn't sound good mate.

Confront her. Get her to tell you what the problem is. If she won't tell you then it's probably better to break it off quickly than carry on with your current situation.
 
Dump her, smash the other bloke in the face, or smash the other bloke in the face, then dump her.

Either works just as well, but do yourself a favour and get out while you can, if you keep sniffing around hoping that things are going to work themselves out you're going to drag it out and get yourself even more hurt in the process.
 
Just do what I did, delete her from your facebook and never contact her again.

Worked quite well that did. :D

Simples :D
 
Dude, this isn't the worst way to fall out at all!! You have lots of room to take the bag back out of her.

Personally, I'd remove any possible contact with her. Phone off etc. If she see's you / you see her, just blank her and keep walking.

Let her figure it out for herself.
 
Worst way ever to find out. Been through something similar. Just break off contact although if you're close to her family, letting a parent know will probably get her an earfull at the least.
 
Maz said:
You're a doormat, do the decent thing and preserve any dignity you might still have a dump her in a way that will humiliate her like he has humiliated you!

She's probably laughing about you right now!

Treat them mean and keep em keen, it's not just a saying it's true!
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Nah that just smacks of bitterness and doesn't make the OP look good at all - rather makes him look a bit desperate and torn up about the whole thing when the ex g/f is likely quite happy in the new relationship anyway.

He'd be better off not trying to humiliate her, not kicking up a fuss, leave her on facebook and ignore her. Tis fine to say he's dissapointed and dump her but getting openly emotional about it gives her the upper hand. If he can move on and in a few months is dating someone else then it will be better for him too. The ex g/f likely has some feeling for him after being together for 1 year - seeing him happy with someone else and not too fussed about her is preferable to seeing some desperate attempt for revenge which makes him look weak and confirms her decision to pick another partner over him.
 
Lakeland said:
Dude, this isn't the worst way to fall out at all!! You have lots of room to take the bag back out of her.

Personally, I'd remove any possible contact with her. Phone off etc. If she see's you / you see her, just blank her and keep walking.

Let her figure it out for herself.
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That's quite a childish retort...

I'd break up with her before she dumps you, that way you still have your dignity.
Friday will most likely be the day, public place - can't make as scene.

But be sure to smash her pasty first ;)
 
PapaLazaru said:
Just walk away
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and we will spare your lives......
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.....just walk away.
 
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