Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.

It's finished, it's done with, end it.

The whys and the wherefores aren't important, but what we can gather is that a) you've been a crap boyfriend in the past AT LEAST once and b)

SHE HAS HAD ANOTHER MAN UP HER

so I think it's safe to say it's over.
 
Mr Jack said:
Reading someone's Facebook messages, MSN, whatever is just as bad as cheating, anyway, so don't act like you have the moral high ground here. Just end it and go find someone new.
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God I hate people like you. If you're serious that you doubt she's been faithful, then why the hell shouldn't you look into it? It'd save you SO much heart ache, than if you didn't and found out a long time later.

I despise cheaters. If your girlfriend has cheated on you and is then lying about it despite the proof, then I think it is a wasted opportunity to just break up with her and be done with it. I'd make her life a living hell, and she would regret it forever.
 
sniffy said:
Women are **** mate. I wish I was gay.
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That's just sexist crap. You're a silly bigot.

Even if you did somehow become gay, it wouldn't make any difference. Do you really think that gay men never cheat? Seriously? You actually believe that?
 
PardonTheWait said:
It's finished, it's done with, end it.

The whys and the wherefores aren't important, but what we can gather is that a) you've been a crap boyfriend in the past AT LEAST once and b)

SHE HAS HAD ANOTHER MAN UP HER

so I think it's safe to say it's over.
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lol :eek:

SHE HAS HAD ANOTHER MAN UP HER OVER AND OVER AND OVER.....AND OVER
 
Nitrojan said:
Yeah but then it's like I am just giving in and giving her the easy way.. exactly what she wanted. I want to make her feel guilt and sorry for how she has made me feel.
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You want revenge. That's a normal human reaction, but it's not a good one in this context. At best, you'll make yourself look like the bad guy. At worst, you'll end up in jail. Also, ask yourself this: do you really want to be as bad or worse than her and do you want her dominating your life? If you're after revenge, both of those things are true.

It's over. End it yourself and end it properly - cut her out of your life, completely. No drunken phone calls, no revenge, nothing. She's not worth your time any more. She done goofed.
 
Why bring up old topics? Seriously.. If you read nearer the end of that topic I have explained that I was in the wrong and that I felt bad for it.

But cheating is one extreme in itself.. So no, I don't see how any of that relates remotely. Anyway.. for the more caring and sensible lot, I did go to see her and I did end it right there and then. I told her that I didn't want anything to do with her ever again, I didn't want to see her or hear of her at all.

Night.
 
Good lad.

As for the 'old topic', it's relevant. You tell us how you feel like a horrible person and you ruined the experience of buying a car for her through jealousy... then a little while later she's seeing someone else. You also mentioned in your OP that you two fell out, then you looked on her Facebook. You don't mention that she did anything suspicious to make you feel you should log into her Facebook account and read her messages. You just did. There's a correlation there.
 
PardonTheWait said:
Good lad.

As for the 'old topic', it's relevant. You tell us how you feel like a horrible person and you ruined the experience of buying a car for her through jealousy... then a little while later she's seeing someone else. You also mentioned in your OP that you two fell out, then you looked on her Facebook. You don't mention that she did anything suspicious to make you feel you should log into her Facebook account and read her messages. You just did. There's a correlation there.
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But that's not justification for her actions is it? He was silly and upset her - couples do that to eachother - but instead of working through it, she starts dipping her fingers in other pies? Granted, he probably didn't help the situation, but that by no means justifies her running off with someone else in response.
 
I haven't read the thread tbh so I have no idea exactly what is going on, however, perhaps it was just the straw that broke the camels back?

The OP will only give a biased view of what has happened throughout the relationship and you can only treat someone like **** for so long before they look elsewhere!
 
Nix said:
But that's not justification for her actions is it? He was silly and upset her - couples do that to eachother - but instead of working through it, she starts dipping her fingers in other pies? Granted, he probably didn't help the situation, but that by no means justifies her running off with someone else in response.
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Of course not, but we don't know their relationship. If he got raging jealous and ruined her day when she bought a new car, and logged into her Facebook to read her messages for no apparent reason (that he was vindicated is pretty irrelevant, he obviously didn't trust her prior to that for whatever reason), then something was clearly amiss on both sides.

When presented with his side, it's natural to side with him, but I'm just saying, jealousy and mistrust will ruin a relationship from the inside out.

She's still a cheating harpy. If you're going to go, go. Not letting go of one rope til you've got hold of the other's not right.
 
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