ok a relationship thread, i apologise

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it's about compatibility. you know the date you go on or the relationship you have with someone that you end really disliking them because of a certain thing they do; be it on the high to low scale with high being knocking someone around low being snoring. do you think you have or are with someone who has been ''that person'' or are you ''that person''?
what i mean by that is, say you went on a date and made a very bad impression, let's say you wore an item of clothing he or she found totally off putting or they had a really annoying laugh and didn't pursue anything further in terms of a relationship purely because of that?
is it a bad idea to totally write something off because of that or will you know if it's right, when it's right? sounds simple i suppose but i'm sure there's lot of instances where something has come from something that could quite easily have been written off if no second chance had been taken?
 
Hmm they say first impressions are very important.
But you also have to get to know someone?

I don't know it's tough, personally I think "love at first sight" is a myth people I love/have loved are people I have gotten to know and didn't initially think I love this girl. Not saying this doesn't happen though.
 
could have changed in the passed two years, 24 months is a long time. Depends what the thing was that gave you the bad impression...
 
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cm1179 said:
it's about compatibility. you know the date you go on or the relationship you have with someone that you end really disliking them because of a certain thing they do; be it on the high to low scale with high being knocking someone around low being snoring. do you think you have or are with someone who has been ''that person'' or are you ''that person''?
what i mean by that is, say you went on a date and made a very bad impression, let's say you wore an item of clothing he or she found totally off putting or they had a really annoying laugh and didn't pursue anything further in terms of a relationship purely because of that?
is it a bad idea to totally write something off because of that or will you know if it's right, when it's right? sounds simple i suppose but i'm sure there's lot of instances where something has come from something that could quite easily have been written off if no second chance had been taken?
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I think you're right. Sometimes it's easier to jump to conclusions and miss out on something wonderful.

Also, do I win a prize for (maybe) knowing what you're talking about? I think you may have been drinking :

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If they have annoying laugh you could easily grow to love it, if they wore an odd piece of clothing there could well be a story behind it etc. in other words I'd still pursue it if everything else went well.

I thought this girl I met a while ago had the most annoyingly middle class accent in the world, but now she's one of my best friends.

It's up to you at the end of the day, but when looking for excuses that small to get out of a potential relationship, you've got to ask yourself whether it's because you actually find it irritating, or because you don't want a relationship with them at all, and need a form of justification. (I can be vague too! :P )
 
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