Caporegime
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The attitude in this thread is appauling, schools have literally millions to lose in these situations and MANY MANY schools try to cover things up, similar will happen in many industries. If a school's in an area where the council need to close 2 out of 5 schools, you can bet the school has a MASSIVE vested interest in something like that not going public.
Likewise schools/councils can play it down or try and cover it up due to the potential for compensation and being sued.
Not being investigated by the police(no one here knows if it was, or wasn't) wouldn't mean anything, nor would no conviction, if there wasn't enough proof but 30 cops involved all believed the kids and all believed this guy was a sicko but with no evidence or one kid lying to help their best friend who really was hurt.
People slip through the cracks, I don't know the story, it hasn't been explained, we don't even know if the guy is 45 trying to get into teaching and this happened 20 years ago, or if it happened 5 years ago, two VERY different times in how these types of situations were handled.
The best advice would be, its not up to the OP to do anything, he never said he wanted to, but if the girlfriend, who I'm under the impression some of her family were involved in the situation. Letting them know and deciding if they want to step up when before they didn't want to.
The attitude of many families will be to hush it up aswell rather than have their daughters face plastered over The Sun in a big peado bust case and she publically becomes known as that girl who got raped and crapped on.
Its VERY unlikely for some ***** girl who made a false accusation 5 or 25 years ago to go after the guy again many years later, however if they really were raped or abused badly by this guy, they may, at 15, been too scared to carry through with a complaint but at 30 most certainly don't want this guy to get near more girls.
The sensible option would be for the girlfriend to maybe have a word, if she feels strongly that she believed the people(I could tell you pretty easily with 98% accuracy if someone was making a false accusation or was talking crap, and most people could do the same for people they know, but couldnt' possible for random school X where you don't know anyone) to be telling the truth, to have a word and see what they want to do.
Ruining a guys career would be horrible, but equally as horrible would be letting a peado become a teacher and hurt other people.
Theres no obvious answer or action to take because it will be completely dependant on knowing the people and if you believed them.
Keep this in mind, if your sister had been raped by a teacher, but was absolutely terrified of court, didn't want to go to court, wouldn't go to the police, but the parents got together with the school, the man was fired but no one would prosecute and your 15 year old sister was way to scared to go all the way with the police, but 20 years later she'd want to stop the guy getting near other kids. Some people falsely accuse people, the sheer number of actual peado's getting caught lately, suggests its not that uncommon either, and people getting of on a technicality isn't insignificant.
Likewise schools/councils can play it down or try and cover it up due to the potential for compensation and being sued.
Not being investigated by the police(no one here knows if it was, or wasn't) wouldn't mean anything, nor would no conviction, if there wasn't enough proof but 30 cops involved all believed the kids and all believed this guy was a sicko but with no evidence or one kid lying to help their best friend who really was hurt.
People slip through the cracks, I don't know the story, it hasn't been explained, we don't even know if the guy is 45 trying to get into teaching and this happened 20 years ago, or if it happened 5 years ago, two VERY different times in how these types of situations were handled.
The best advice would be, its not up to the OP to do anything, he never said he wanted to, but if the girlfriend, who I'm under the impression some of her family were involved in the situation. Letting them know and deciding if they want to step up when before they didn't want to.
The attitude of many families will be to hush it up aswell rather than have their daughters face plastered over The Sun in a big peado bust case and she publically becomes known as that girl who got raped and crapped on.
Its VERY unlikely for some ***** girl who made a false accusation 5 or 25 years ago to go after the guy again many years later, however if they really were raped or abused badly by this guy, they may, at 15, been too scared to carry through with a complaint but at 30 most certainly don't want this guy to get near more girls.
The sensible option would be for the girlfriend to maybe have a word, if she feels strongly that she believed the people(I could tell you pretty easily with 98% accuracy if someone was making a false accusation or was talking crap, and most people could do the same for people they know, but couldnt' possible for random school X where you don't know anyone) to be telling the truth, to have a word and see what they want to do.
Ruining a guys career would be horrible, but equally as horrible would be letting a peado become a teacher and hurt other people.
Theres no obvious answer or action to take because it will be completely dependant on knowing the people and if you believed them.
Keep this in mind, if your sister had been raped by a teacher, but was absolutely terrified of court, didn't want to go to court, wouldn't go to the police, but the parents got together with the school, the man was fired but no one would prosecute and your 15 year old sister was way to scared to go all the way with the police, but 20 years later she'd want to stop the guy getting near other kids. Some people falsely accuse people, the sheer number of actual peado's getting caught lately, suggests its not that uncommon either, and people getting of on a technicality isn't insignificant.
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