Women and there reasons for breaking up with you

[regulus]

She met a 'boer' with a 3-foot sausage and khaki hat. She's lost. Shag her mom and move on.

 

[Xinn]

I didn't get out of bed to go to her (evil) mothers wedding... apparently that was the final straw.

 

[Theophany]

Thinking about it, I've done exactly the same thing. Gone on holiday and had a fabulous time, didn't think about the gf at all. Came back and realised I wasn't that fussed about her, so broke up with the same reasons yours has given you.

Truth. Did the same last year. Only twist is when I got back to tell her I was done with her she blurted out that she'd been seeing somebody else. She got all the guilt, I got to use the sympathy chat-up lines and had none of the heartbreak. Win.

 

[krooton]

I thought you'd recently gotten married?

Nope, was engaged at the start of 2008 but she ended it.

You probably saw the photo of me and my new lady at a wedding. Or thought that us buying a flat was getting married.

 

[PerfectForm]

Well, thank you for all your honest opinions, even the ones regarding the boars 3 ft soilder .

Well, I'm walking away with my head held high, learnt my lesson once, not about to let my self get dragged down again. Shes made her mind up, so, beer,sports, games and cars for me now.

Can finally afford to get that prelude i always wanted <3 honda

 

[godinman]

Um, where to hell is the other relationship thread? I left it at 4pm as I had to go home, an he was supposed to come back at 7pm...

What happened in there!?!?!

 

[robgmun]

Deleted becauce it got into a grey area legally wise because facebook photos and personal details were being posted

 

[MumboJumbo]

Deleted becauce it got into a grey area legally wise because facebook photos and personal details were being posted

What was it even about? It was deleated as I clicked on it. Something about a gf in a car crash?

 

[MumboJumbo]

Well, thank you for all your honest opinions, even the ones regarding the boars 3 ft soilder .

Well, I'm walking away with my head held high, learnt my lesson once, not about to let my self get dragged down again. Shes made her mind up, so, beer,sports, games and cars for me now.

Can finally afford to get that prelude i always wanted <3 honda

Were we right? She just didn't have the balls to speak the truth?

 

[steve-h]

Well, thank you for all your honest opinions, even the ones regarding the boars 3 ft soilder .

Well, I'm walking away with my head held high, learnt my lesson once, not about to let my self get dragged down again. Shes made her mind up, so, beer,sports, games and cars for me now.

Can finally afford to get that prelude i always wanted <3 honda

Get the ring, pawn... spend on beer???

 

[Darg]

Africa... hrm. "Once you go black you never go back".

 

[Narziss]

I'd say she has 'tasted' some excitement and, perhaps, received some male attention in SA. I'm not saying she's cheated, but just having that attention (and liking it) has made her question where she wants to be at the moment.

PS- Have you seen the BBQ's they have out there! Awesome!

PPS- Life support system.

 

[Narziss]

I think the best thing to do in this situation is give her the space she needs and has asked for. Don't go texting her every 5 minutes, don't call her, etc. It will be hard as nails but you have to do it.

Start preparing yourself mentally for the fact that you might not get back together. As it is a possible outcome, start seeing friends who aren't too associated with her and go out with the lads, keep yourself busy.

Two possible outcomes will arise from this:

1) She realises in a few weeks/months that she does miss you like crazy and she will approach you, at which point in time you make the decision to get back or not.

2) You go your seperate ways, but at least you won't be strung out for the few weeks/months whilst she makes up her mind.

I am aware that women in this situation before have been known to use their Ex as an "emotional crutch". Essentially use you if she feels lonely once in a while, maybe for sex, for attention, whatever - whilst all the while not interested in continuing a serious relationship. Do not allow this to happen. Being strung along is the worst thing that can happen to you.

Have a serious chat with her, try and be as truthful as possible. Then do as she asks and start trying to move on. It won't be easy but it will be the best thing for you in the long run.

Good luck mate.

Surely this is tooooooo sagacious for GD?

 

[Nix]

I'm not comfortable with how we never talk,
and I missed you since you went out for that walk.
It's been 13 months since May.
It still feels like yesterday.
Hmm hmm hmm, hmm hmm hmm.
I was scared to fix what I had broke.
It's a lonely place to live, just a ghost.
There is love left in my life, I will see.
But you still hurt me.

Badabum badabum.

I can still see all your clothes thrown on the floor.
There are friends who never call me any more.
I remember throwing out all of your things,
but I think I kept my ring.
I'm not comfortable with how this story ends.
We were lovers and now we're not even friends.
You were perfect and I guess I'm just a creep.
But you still hurt me.

Badabum badabum.

 

[benneh]

What was it even about? It was deleated as I clicked on it. Something about a gf in a car crash?

Whuuuu..

Info plox!.

 

[Mason-]

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[soultaker]

Don't forget to get your ring back.

this then cash for gold

 

[trentlad]

Sure but are there not specific relationship forums for this kind of stuff ?

Most people that post relationship problem threads here mostly get laughed at .

Sometimes you have to figure things out for yourself.

Actually... I 100% agree with you.

It's overly apparent when you ask a techy question and get two replies but then say something like 'spec me a leather wallet' and you get three pages.

*shakes head at the majority of OcUK (whilst honestly appreciating the helpfull responses to these non-tech questions)*