was i justified in what i said?

i'm a reasonable person and i don't usually do what i did but i'm glad i did. i didn't start to criticise her lifestyle choices until she criticised mine, and that's what she was doing; criticising. i know it may sound a bit tit for tat but i felt she had no right to do it. i live a humble life, i only have to look after myself and i am quite happy with that. i don't want to be in her position when i'm in my late 30's (drinking in pubs) so i will do it now at an age i feel comfortable with. essentially she screwed up, has 3 kids by 2 different men and a marriage under her belt, all before she is 40. bottom line is, this happened because she did it too young. now, i would have quite happily kept these opinions to myself but her attitude prompted me to tell her a few home truths. i'm sure her crying was a sign of the truths hitting home, i just with i'd have got the ''who's looking after your kids right now'' comment in. harsh i know but screw it, i owed it to myself to speak up for myself.
 
Here's a Quick Lesson.

Womans words = You shouldn't be single.
Translates to = I would ride you to Hell & back right this minute !!!

You fail at the easy lay. :(
 
FortyFive said:
Here's a Quick Lesson.

Womans words = You shouldn't be single.
Translates to = I would ride you to Hell & back right this minute !!!

You fail at the easy lay. :(
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That's exactly what I was going to say, doesn't matter her tone at the time that's what she's thinking. She was clearly interested in the OP.

OP is Alpha? pfft alpha doesn't pass up any jigglies.
 
steve-h said:
You could have taken it a little better OP, instead of being all butthurt.

Truth hurts (that counts for both of you :))
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but i'm happy with my truth. i choose my lifestyle and personally believe it is better lifestyle choice than hers, i only let her know this after she took it upon herself to criticise mine.

i can't remember exactly what she said, but it was said in a very cutting way. she was essentially criticising my lifestyle choice, i wouldn't have reacted like this if i didn't feel so strongly about it.
 
Without being there it's tricky to know if she was just being a snide bitch, in which case completley justified, or else she was joking about him being single as she wanted sex and he completely misread it, got defensive and made her cry.
 
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