gf broke up with me, how do i get the pain away ?

Best revenge is living well, don't be bitter or do the driving 3 hours thing someone has mentioned. Get stuck in with work/study/going out or whatever and get on with life.

Don't contact her, it's finished, move on.
 
Don't ever try to call her again.

If you happen to bump into her, be polite, be charming, be nice. But don't buff her ego in any way. and say "bye" and get out of there first. You owe her nothing. She obviously thought the same when she sent you that e-mail.

Don't wallow. Use your new-found free-time productively - you now have more time, and more money, I'd guess. Join a gym and become a behemoth of a man :D or get cooking; I love to cook, it calms my mind and means that I don't vegetate on the sofa in front of the TV.

Why did she think she couldn't go out on girly nights? Were you even a teensy bit possessive? I think people can be, without meaning to - we can at least monopolise our other half's time, which can become a rut of "let's just do whatever together". When the next one comes along, try to give a little bit less to the relationship, force a little bit of space into it, if that makes sense - it can sometimes make things stronger.
 
Eat something. What you are probaly feeling is hunger. Possibly Pasty.

Seriously though people loose their appetite and often forget to eat in these sorts of situations which just add physical pain to the already emotional pain.
 
from the scenario it seems that your both quite young? (ie under 20) so i wouldnt worry about it your be over it by the time your next gf comes around and your be wondering what all the fuss was about.
 
She sounds like a coward if she just broke up with you via email. In my experience that means she'll have other plans or have an eye on someone already.

Don't rise to it, go out and pretend you're having a good time and just wait. DON'T let her know you miss her even if you do. So long as she thinks you want her back she'll feel secure and do what she likes knowing she can go back. As soon as she loses that she will panic. She'll just think WTF he's over me already and try to get you back or make contact again to try to confirm if you still like her. Tell her "Sure, come down for the weekend!" and let her drive 3 hours to your house. Then when she arrives tell her you've changed your mind so she may as well drive home again and shut the door on her leaving her to drive 3 hours back again. Worked for me with a cheating ex who moved in with the other guy and tried to get back with me whilst still living with him!! I'm sure she enjoyed 6 hours of M25 rush hour, road works traffic really.

Failing that, do what I did the second time and move half way round the world! Haven't regretted it so far!

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Smash her Gran's pasty till it turns into and sounds like an accordion.

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