Anyone else feel like they don't deserve the girl they are currently with?

To the OP.

Stop being so emo and grow a pair of balls you whiney pansey man. Or you know, like write some poetry and weep some more.
 
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No. Mine's currently snoring in my ear hole whilst I'm trying to watch TV/sleep.

If I turn it up she'll wake up and say it's too loud.

I'm going to kill her :mad:
 
Slightly open to interpretation what you mean by 'deserving' someone.

In response, no - I don't really ever feel like I don't deserve anyone as that would imply I'm inherently insecure. That and I decided quite some time ago that any potential partner of mine needs to be an equal. I want worlds to collide, not to see one become dwarfed by another.

Although I am insecure at a base-level (we all are to some degree), my main concern - if any - would simply be the confusion and wonderment at what on Earth the said girl possibly saw in me in the first place. What is it that makes Nix - the messed up, introverted nihilist - so special? I'd accept her attention quite happily, but that wouldn't stop me from wondering if she's got me mixed up with someone else, or that she's genuinely unhinged enough to think I'm a suitable partner and by consequence perhaps building her up to be the insecure one.

But you know, I'd probably also realise that it's perfectly normal to go through these motions and learn to enjoy the ride for what it is.
 
Nix said:
Slightly open to interpretation what you mean by 'deserving' someone.

In response, no - I don't really ever feel like I don't deserve anyone as that would imply I'm inherently insecure. That and I decided quite some time ago that any potential partner of mine needs to be an equal. I want worlds to collide, not to see one become dwarfed by another.

Although I am insecure at a base-level (we all are to some degree), my main concern - if any - would simply be the confusion and wonderment at what on Earth the said girl possibly saw in me in the first place. What is it that makes Nix - the messed up, introverted nihilist - so special? I'd accept her attention quite happily, but that wouldn't stop me from wondering if she's got me mixed up with someone else, or that she's genuinely unhinged enough to think I'm a suitable partner and by consequence perhaps building her up to be the insecure one.

But you know, I'd probably also realise that it's perfectly normal to go through these motions and learn to enjoy the ride for what it is.
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I still feel like that and I've been married 15 years...I still don't know what she sees in me...
 
Castiel said:
I still feel like that and I've been married 15 years...I still don't know what she sees in me...
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This is exactly why I'm so terrible at potential job applications. We all seem blind to our better qualities.

But yes, I'm still single, so clearly I'm just all chaff. :D
 
Okay, I'm pumped, she's getting a real man from today onwards.

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I know what you mean Nix.

Honestly don't know what she sees in me, I often wonder what it is about me she likes so much.
 
I know what my GF see's in my - I'm just Mr. Awesome! :cool: :p

On a serious note - just go with the flow - she's with you and likes you. Stop doubting yourself as she will see it and more than likely move on to a real man.
 
Tummy said:
I know what you mean Nix.

Honestly don't know what she sees in me, I often wonder what it is about me she likes so much.
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I asked my wife this morning why she loves me, after saying "you've been talking nonsense on the OCuk site again, haven't you?" her answer was "You are my hero, You make me feel safe and You've got nice hands:confused:", well that just proves women are pretty strange, because I told her that I love her because of her boobs and bum!!!!!!!;)
 
well dump her then and go and be with some girl that you do feel you deserve to be with

/really, of all the things to complain about/
 
I'm assuming she's not handcuffed to your radiator.

She's with you by choice, whether you are good enough or not is up to her and she's with you, so pack in your whining and enjoy feeling like you're punching above your weight.
 
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