I totally disagree with your assessment of "not even close". Irrespective of who created the expectations, the people believed the hype and created their own expectations that he could deliver change rapidly. So my original point stands.
Nope, Obama promises free healthcare for all........ peoples expectations shockingly are free healthcare for all, the fact that Obama promised something beyond the realms of reality is where the expectations of massive proportions came from. Sorry but no one expected free health care for all out of the nothing, he promised it, no one expected soldiers to pull out of Iraq the week he was sworn in until he promised it. Expectation followed the promises, it was Obama/his camp that was promising the world, yes, voters were incredibly stupid to believe before his 4 year term was up an entirely new health service would be in place, it was completely unbelievable if you have half a brain, none of them would have even though about it had he not said it.
He promised rapid change, when he said free healthcare for all, and his initial plan, it wasn't for stages over the next say 10 years, he's consistantly "downgraded" his promises all along, thats why his current promises seem conservative to the expectations, he made promises he couldn't deliver on, and his new ones, basically in line with all other candidates, seem, "meh" at best.
LIke I said, while fighting for the nomination against Clinton, Clinton/McCann were saying out of Iraq by mid to late 2010, early 2011 iirc, Bush was saying pretty much that, Obama was promising, at first, to do it before he got in power by "fighting the man in congress", utter BS, people believed it. Right after he got the nomination he was suddenly less about getting out of Iraq the second he got in power, and more doing it in the first 6-12 months, closer to the elections he started promising the same withdrawal times as Clinton and McCann had always promised. McCann and Clinton knew when they could realistically get out, Obama hadn't a clue and basically made up a date, later he realised it was completely unfeasable and changed it. Same goes with healthcare, his promises are what people expect, his new and MUCH revised promises seem utterly dissappointing in comparison.
This is the stupid bit, Democrats/Republicans have NEVER failed to win the election when the current president had such low approval rate(I think once like over 100 years ago or something). The country always swings the other way, Obama basically had it sealed and if he was ALSO honest about what he could achieve people wouldn't be dissappointed in him or the democrats as badly as they were now. Had Clinton won the nomination with, you know, achievable promises, she'd have won the election just as easily and now no one would be dissappointed. Its all in what he promised, when, and how much his promises have changed. As I said, the ridiculous thing is he didn't need to promise anything to beat McCann, it was a lock, democrats had this hands down 2 years before the elections almost no matter who was in charge.
lmao. have you been living in a bubble the last 30 years. In the immortal words of Reagan when asked about his solution to the deficit "it's big enough to take care of itself"

Democrats (Bill Clinton) reduced the deficit during his mandate. Then junior came along and it got out of control once again.
it was republicans who increased the size of government during the GW era and the ones who initiated the bank bailout. Obama just stepped in at the wrong time. He is no messiah but hardly the root of the problem
Is Clinton in the democratic party now, no, he was the best President they'll have for the next 50 years, he was sensible and did sensible things.
Had Clinton been in charge when 9/11 happened, he would have gone to war, war + deficit not growing = never going to happen.
THe simple fundamental ideal behind Republicans is SMALL government, one of the biggest idea's behind the Democrats, is big government, as shown by Obama, Democrats(like Labour) want to give you everything, have government run everything, and in doing so, spending will go absolutely through the roof. You will get democrats who are closer to the middle, and Republicans too, you'll even occasionally get a Republican whose pro abortion, and a Democrat who wants to reduce the deficit...... thats life.
Bush wasn't great, but I really wouldn't go against the idea that the wars weren't well, in terms of job, spending, building, manufacturing in the USA, the wars prevented jobs being lost and kept the economy roling to some degree, as below, in general when theres a chance of a war defence companies will be pushing senators and governors to agree to one.
Its not as simple as looking 100% at two presidents and what happened in their reign, that doesn't change the long term policies/goals of the governments.
labour here are for HUGE public spending, that doesn't stop the fact that had they won they'd also be reducing the deficit, JUST NOT AS MUCH. Would republicans in the same time Clinton was in charge reduced the deficit, but more than the democrats, I don't know, maybe. Labour are still Labour, there was a clear difference in their own and Conservative and Lib Dem plans for cutting spending and reducing the deficit, the Conservatives wanted to cut most, lib dems a medium amount and Labour the least. Which still shows broadly speaking the aims and general trends of all 3 parties, yet all three would have cut spending. You're talking absolutes, a Democrat cut the deficit so he can't be for public spending, and thats nonsense, that ISN'T the real world, the differences come in where and how much the cut happens.
Likewise Conservatives have increased public spending before when its been appropriate, NHS has basically always had more spent on it most years since, well, it started, the difference again is in how fast both parties increase the spending added to the NHS.
YOu also missed a rather fundamental part in government which not nullifys both parties goals, but comprimises them, comprimise. Its often, we won't let you have X, unless we have Y, which is why democracy doesn't really work. Republicans come in, get 20 things their own way, and democrats get 20 things their way, the other guys get in power, they reverse the 20 republican things they didn't agree with but the Republicans then get 20 other things, often canceling out the things Democrats got while the Republicans were in charge, its a mess, its more about who wins now rather than making things better. This is also where so much waste comes in, Labour, we'll let you have that if you agree to the public ID scheme, Conservatives get in power, several billion pounds later spent on the worthless ID scheme, and its officially got the nail put in the coffin.
Government will grow, and shrink, for many different reasons/policies under both Democratic and Republican leadership because they'll win some fights, and lose others, thats life.
don't mean to contradict all you say. so please don't take it personally. but the war on drugs has created more problems than it has solved, especially with latin americans, whose general population isn't a big fan of the US, not to mention that drug use/dealing has increased.
if you were to legalize then it would create jobs (except at the DEA/police, but some would be compensated by the FDA which would need more staff to regulate, etc...). i.e. phillip morris would plant pot in their tobacco fields, it would create new legitimate business opportunities, new jobs and the governement would get more revenue from taxes. not to mention that you would wipe out most drug related crimes pretty effectively and save money from having a significant reduction in the overpopulated prisons (off the top of my head i think about 3/4 of the US prison population is drug related)
if you don't believe me just look how effective legalizing can be. just look at alcohol prohibition in the 30's. history can teach us lessons.
You didn't contradict anything I said, legalising drugs would create jobs, but wouldn't justify the hundreds of billions spent on the war on drugs, nor would it prevent lots of jobs being lost on the fight against drugs.
Again the big problem is its the military behind the war on drugs in general, and military = defence spending, and defence spending = basically bribing senators for votes on who gets contracts. Defence spending is HUGE business, the drug war is now a HUGE industry in the states, and the money it pumps into the military mean defence contractors aren't letting senators vote against a drug war anytime soon, thats just life.