Not ANOTHER relationship thread!!!

Kids change people, but not enough to suddenly make everything different or better.

Don't go back just for the kid, it will be worse for them growing up in an unloving home (even though the bAby will be loved).

Think about why you left, has it changed, if not them don't go back.

Simples.
 
At least stay amicable even if it's just for the baby's sake, you never know time may heal the cracks in your relationship.

MW
 
Im not even thinking of 'pasty' at the moment theres a lot to work on before that sort of thing.

It's trying to determine whether my feelings are genuine, or am I just looking to move back to a comfort zone that I was comfortable with for 6 years previously.

I admitted before I was devastated when this girl this year dumped me, because we had planned holidays for next year, and she seemed a breath of fresh air, but like I say there WERE times when I was watching TV holding her and thinking "is this right or am I just in this for comfort?"
 
GD Relationship/what should I do/Look at this thread multiple choice list:

Please select one.
1. Smash her pasty.
2. Kill it with fire.
3. Pancake.
4. No don't.
5. Yes.
 
You should probably agree to remain friends and get drunk and end up in bed together.

Your going to do what you want anyway - so why bother asking for advice?
 
hmmm

Could be a good thing here for all involved.
Why don't take it easy with her and see how it goes.
A child can change people and how they see each other - it has the ability to make people grow up quickly and see what they really want.
But please do not go trapping yourself - it has to be right for you so take it easy and see how it goes.
Good Luck and happy xmas.:)
 
From my prospective its your child also....

I would go back for the childs sake...

The problem people have is all relationships go through tough times and dont know how to re-act,

Just need to learn to work it out or just let it pass
 
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Take her back, sort your life out and bring up your child in a stable environment where both its mother and father are present.

Your responsibilities now stretch more further than just whats best for you.
 
[TW]Fox;17922369 said:
Take her back, sort your life out and bring up your child in a stable environment where both its mother and father are present.

Your responsibilities now stretch more further than just whats best for you.
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And sometimes not having the parents together is for the best of the child.
Its easy to say 'go make it stable', it's a lot harder to actually make it happen.
 
[TW]Fox;17922369 said:
Take her back, sort your life out and bring up your child in a stable environment where both its mother and father are present.

Your responsibilities now stretch more further than just whats best for you.
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Possibly the first time i've seen you post something which is incorrect (possibly) :D

Sometimes these things can't be sorted out and they won't get along. If that's the case then a child shouldn't be in that enviroment :)
 
There is no indication that they didnt get along, he said they are still amicable and it started to 'fizz out'.

It's a shame he lost the excitement but surely the kid is no more important?
 
By the sounds of things you still have feelings for her, and she still has them for you. The fact you were questioning your most recent relationship clearly means you were not ready for it and/or you sub-conciously wanted your long term partner back.

Obviously whats important here is the baby, and if you honestly think things can work with your ex then a long talk may be in order because unless you are both 100% certain your better off just staying single. You need to address the issues from the past and that more often than not means talking about and facing things that you may not want to hear (like you have a small willy or her pasty smells of sardines!)

Address the issues that caused the breakup first and then you may be able to work it out, but only if your 100% certain that is what your heart and mind want.
 
[TW]Fox;17922454 said:
There is no indication that they didnt get along, he said they are still amicable and it started to 'fizz out'.

It's a shame he lost the excitement but surely the kid is no more important?
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The kids are more important. Bit it is important that they are brought up in a loving, affectionate home where the parents clearly love each other.
Children need to see a working relationship so that they learn what is normal.
 
What a load of old cod, put her in her plaice and tell her to get the chip right off her shoulder, put the fry 1st, for pollocks sake....

.......oh wait, wrong thread!
 
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