My Dad.

I lost my father last year two weeks ago, being only 18 it hit me quite hard,

was a generally fit person, over the course of 2 years i watched him wither away.

whatever happens i feel for you, get better soon

:( :(
 
Be strong son, i spent all day yesterday up the hospital seeing a mate that wont see christmas, bad times, makes you think.
 
Vita Salaam bro...im sorry to hear about your father:(...i hope inshallah he gets better...my prayers and dua's are with you and your family at this difficult time...just try and be strong for your dad.
 
best of luck wth him pulling through. :)

If he doesnt then be happy that he has had a heathly long life (apologies if that sounds appropriate but im just trying to find the silver lining
 
Thanks again guys really appreciate the replies. He's started to eat a little bit which is good! The more he eats the better he will feel. The only thought which is scaring me is the results from the biopsy and what the doctors can do next for him.

He's having loads of family come see him so he's not really thinking about what is wrong with him. It's just I even know when he's alone in the night it must cross his mind. I'm trying my best to do whatever I can for my mother and him, but with that said, sometimes I still think it isn't enough .:(
 
hey m8, my thoughts are with you, i lived through Hodgkins Lymphoma a few years back, still in remission now, any idea which he has? most are very curable and i hope it works out for you. as i said thoughts are with u and ya family
 
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hey m8, my thoughts are with you, i lived through Hodgkins Lymphoma a few years back, still in remission now, any idea which he has? most are very curable and i hope it works out for you. as i said thoughts are with u and ya family
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We don't know as of yet, But the Symptoms more look like they're Non-Hodgkins. I hope it is nothing serious Inshallah, the doctor did say she does think it's the aggressive type so should be very treatable and possibly curable depending on which of the 36 different sub-types it is.
 
Megahurtz400 said:
Whoever turns this thread into a religous debate is a C word.

Stop thinking about your opinion, and think of Vita and his family please, and send your best wishes towards them :)
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asim18 said:
This really isn't the right thread to refute God and/or divine intervention.
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I thought he was just peddling his own beliefs in a wholly inappropriate way in this thread. I've just re-read the OP, I missed the part near the bottom where he himself asked for a prayer. :)
 
Greenlizard0 said:
I thought he was just peddling his own beliefs in a wholly inappropriate way in this thread. I've just re-read the OP, I missed the part near the bottom where he himself asked for a prayer. :)
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No problem - I understand your reaction. The post felt a little uncomfortable to type so I can imagine reading it. I took the 'if you are religious' bit of the OP to be free reign for anyone who was to pray. I don't think I should be trying to justify the earlier post here though, other than to say that I believe prayer for healing would have no chance of being effective if done covertly or too subtly (hence the very overt wording).

Vita - I appreciate this is a very sensitive time so I hope that I haven't offended or upset you and that your dad continues to improve.
 
My thoughts are with you and your family, it's awful news.

If it helps, I am currently undergoing treatment for Lymphoma at the moment. I won't go into any details here but you are more welcome to get my E-Mail address from my trust for a chat, I may be able to answer any questions you may have etc I'm actually in hospital also at the moment (Guys hospital in London) so I understand your post completely, hospitals are horrid horrid places.
 
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Breeny said:
My thoughts are with you and your family, it's awful news.

If it helps, I am currently undergoing treatment for Lymphoma at the moment. I won't go into any details here but you are more welcome to get my E-Mail address from my trust for a chat, I may be able to answer any questions you may have etc I'm actually in hospital also at the moment (Guys hospital in London) so I understand your post completely, hospitals are horrid horrid places.
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I really do hope you get better. Once I know more from the Doctors then I may have a chat with you. I just rather not hear anything worse then what I already know. I really do hope you get better. I can't even begin to imagine as a person with the illness what you may be going through. Seriously, my mind ends up in two places sometimes, the psychological effects that are possible with reading things or hearing from others...well, really can worry a person.

Uriel, don't worry you haven't offended me. I wrote the prayer bit because I know there are a vast majority of different religious people, and some who don't even have a religion. So I really didn't want to offend any of them, so that's why I wrote what I did in the OP. I didn't write it for the fact of turning it into some religious ramble thread. Sorry for the misunderstanding.
 
Bit of an update: Doc said to me today that my father has pneumonia. Not looking good now. :(
 
I'm sorry to hear this, Vita. I send your father my best wishes, and I hope he makes a full recovery.
 
Just an Update: My father passed away on Friday. I was there and he died peacefully. Thanks for all the support, but I guess, God intended it to be different.
 
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